So, I think I’m at the point where normal orgasms are just not enough anymore and those stories about fullbodyorgasms are far too promising. 😀
As a straight guy my anal experience is quite low, so what to you recommend for a succesfull first time?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/ec3kdf/some_advice_for_a_straight_prostatenoob/
Get a basic aneros toy and try it.
An open and relaxed mind with the expectation of nothing happening.
Get an Aneros device and spend some time reading the Aneros wiki and forum for some great insights into how to start your journey.
Full body orgasms are something to be amazed with. It takes time. and well … a little exploring. You might want to start with some finger play. You have to find the p spot. make sure you have some good alone time. and lots of lube. be ready for some…. well little messes. just in case have some old towels and something to clean up with.
A few points to think about. Maybe look into a toy, something easy, small, make sure it has a flare base. You may want a vibe, maybe not. See what feels good, Be careful, the area is sensitive. Don’t be rough. if there is any pain or discomfort, stop. end of story.
It took me a few years to have the fabled super o. and its only happened a few times. and trust me. whe it happens you will know.
there is r/prostateplay as well. and r/aneroscheck them out.
Read Mantak Chia’s The MultiOrgasmic Man. Tell yourself its your body and whatever pleasure you can generate from it is up to you.
Get a small butt plug, lube up and insert it then masturbate. Do lots of kegels with and without the plug in. There are apps to help with kegel training.
Check our wand type toys like the njoy. Once you get a healthy comfort with this type of anal play get an aneros toy. Don’t masturbate for a couple days, then get aroused and insert the toy and sit in a dark warm room with some headphones and binaural beats playing. If you smoke weed, getting just a tiny bit high can help relax you. Sit with the toy in and literally do nothing but focus on how the toy feels inside you. Think erotically, look at some porn or read erotica and observe how your muscles down there react to those thoughts/images. Don’t forget to breathe!!
This is a long game. Your prostate is a muscle. You want it to get ripped? You’re going to have to work it out. A lot.
I think, as a straight guy, one of the more eroticized elements of why I did it was the element of your body reacting to this intrusion in a way you can’t and don’t want to stop.
Or some guys get off on the personal shame they feel about this kind of orgasm challenging their perceptions of masculinity.
Surrendering to the feeling either way is how I work my head game which is more than 50% of the way to getting there…
I’ve been at this for probably a decade now, there’s times where I can do some kegels and start a chain of mini orgasms.