Hey so im 18 and ive been hearing abou the aneros and prostate orgasms. Where do i start and what model do you suggest? Im excited but also am i too young to start with this? Also is there any harm in prostate orgasms? And what sensations should i feel when doing this?
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The Aneros wiki has a ton of info: [http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Main_Page](http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Main_Page)
I recommend the Helix Syn as a good starting point. However, be warned that you may end up wanting to try different models. Avoid knock-offs, it’s best to stay with the name brand for this.
18 doesn’t seem too young. There’s no harm in prostate orgasms, but your butt is a delicate area so be gentle – nothing should hurt. Check the wiki for a lot of descriptions of sensations.
Start experimenting with your fingers. You’ll have better results with your fingers than any passive toys. The trick to reach a prostate orgasm rapidly is to maintain your pubococcygeus muscle strongly contracted while you massage your prostate.
I’ve been doing prostate play since I was younger than you, and used Aneros toys for >12 years… but every guy is different, so take my advice for what it’s worth.
1. I would suggest starting with a rather thin (0.75″ or less in diameter), non-phallic inexpensive dildo-type toy. Those are easy to insert and moving them in and out will definitely stimulate your prostate. Check out r/sextoys for suggestions. You can try fingers, but I (and a lot of guys apparently) didn’t have much luck with that, especially for more than a couple of minutes. Some guys can, if they have long arms. Otherwise, it might be awkward to try to maintain your body in a position so you can reliably massage your own prostate for very long. The starter toy will let you find your prostate and see how it feels to be stimulated while relaxing, without having to bend forward. If you enjoy the inexpensive toy, then I also highly recommend the Aneros Helix Syn as the next step… but perhaps not the first, due to the cost and higher learning curve it has.
2. NO, definitely not too young. I mean, are you old enough to masturbate? If so, then this is just a different (more intense) way to do it occasionally.
3. Unless you have a severe medical condition (like an infected prostate or cancer), or try to put something dangerous inside you (DON’T)… then no, it’s not harmful. In fact it very well may be helpful. It’s been practiced for thousands of years by some eastern cultures for health, and also in the Western world until maybe 50 years ago (when antibiotics began being sold instead to address prostate issues). In fact I strongly believe there are a number of potential health benefits, including better erections, better orgasms in general, increased semen production, etc. Not to mention that the orgasms it can produce are very intense and relaxing which is good for your overall mental/emotional health.
4. At first, it may feel strange having something inside you. Be sure you aren’t “full” before starting or your toy may get a little messy. Some guys initially feel like they need to pee when the prostate is stimulated. This usually passes and (depending on how sensitive your prostate is); then you begin to feel pleasure from it, especially if you’re already horny. As you continue to do it, it can become extremely pleasurable, to the point that some guys can orgasm just from prostate stimulation (the “Hands Free Orgasm), although that definitely doesn’t have to be the goal. A lot of guys simply use it as as a supplement to penile masturbation. The combination of both together can be very intense. Finally, don’t give up if it doesn’t work right away. Sometimes you need to “train” your body to enjoy this new type of pleasure.
Good luck!
Let me add dear user, that the toy if your choosing, should it be the phallic dildo type mentioned, should be listed as anal safe and/or flared base, something making it impossible to be sucked into the rectum. Honestly though, you might as well just start with a Helix trident if you buy a toy. Most of what is safe and effective, especially the toys made of safe material, are in that price range anyway. Helix isn’t too big, and while Eupho is smaller, sometimes it takes more experience the Helix does. Whatever method you choose, just know that trying to hit a goal will only make it harder to achieve anything. I always try to start a massage session expecting nothing, and I try to relax and just focus on what is happening and what I feel in the moment but while just relaxing physically and mentally. I’ll flex my muscles down there, but I know there is not a lot I can do to hasten orgasm unlike with masturbation.
I find that I must have no clear cut time limit placed on myself. If I know even in the slightest I only have so much time, nothing will happen. If I’m too tired, nothing will happen. However if I allow my body the time it needs, I am rewarded with HUGE explosive orgasms that sometimes go for minutes at a time and have me writhing and thrashing all over my bed but while not ejaculating. Since I don’t ejaculate through prostate massage, I can have multiple orgasms
These orgasms I can feel all over my body, and I cannot really describe them and do them justice. It’s like I feel the most amazing sensations of Euphoric pleasure all over my body. Its a feeling like cum would just start erupting out of every pore if that were possible. You know the sensation right before your dick starts erupting cum? I would compare a prostate orgasm to that except the feeling is all over and therefore much less focused. I’d say for me ground zero if that sensation starts in my groin and radiates outward.