I recently ordered the helix syn trident as that was recommended for new comers and it arrives tomorrow, apologies in advance for being descriptive. I’ve been reading here and on the website that having control of your sphincter and PC muscles is key for maximum enjoyment. Now it’s pretty clear what the sphincter muscle is, but for the PC I’m not quite sure. Is that the muscle you can flex that causes a bit of tightening further up inside your rectum, similar to what a woman can do to squeeze you when you’re inside of her? Now I’m sure it may not be the same exact thing but is that analogous to the PC in men? I have two very distinct points of muscle control and there and as someone who has a bit of experience down there with dildos and such I was just pondering that I might already be in a good place muscle control wise to enjoy my new aneros.
Thanks to anyone who can chime in
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/gvv8nh/question_about_the_pc_muscle_from_an_anal_veteran/
It’s the same muscle used to stop peeing midstream. Someone else may have a better description.
For me at least, contracting my PC feels like tightening a string that runs between the base of my penis (under the balls) and my sphincter.
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The “inner sphincter” that you’re talking about isn’t in much of the stuff I’ve read about aneros, but tbh, flexing it with an aneros in feels pretty good to me.
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At the moment I can contract:
Just the inner sphincter
Just the outer sphincter
The PC muscle always contracts the outer sphincter a little bit at the same time for me.
I’ve read that part of prostate-o is separating the PC and sphincter movements to move either independently in either order and then alternate between them in slow gentle contractions until they start moving on their own.
yeah I was equally confused. I only barely grasped the base of using the muscle separately from holding in my.pee.
The 3rd time I used my aneros and sat with it for 40 mins or so I was able to contract it almost separately witbout flexing my dick.