How to find deeper arousal?

So I’ve noticed the only sessions where I feel strong P-waves are those that I start feeling aroused even before I insert the Aneros. It feels like my prostate is craving the stimulation.

However I’ve found I don’t get to that highly aroused state very frequently. More often than not I insert the toy and feel relaxed but not very horny, and so not much happens. Porn doesn’t really arouse me as much as I’d like (maybe I’m desensitized?) and I’ve also tried abstaining from masturbation for several days and haven’t had much success with it.

On the other hand there’s been times when this prostate arousal comes up in a totally natural and effortless way (usually a day or two after my last session, even if the session itself was mild). Sadly it almost always happens during the day when I can’t take 30-60 minutes for an impromptu session. By the time I have some time to myself, the prostate arousal is long gone.

I guess my question is how I can access this deeper arousal within me when I *do* have time to play. (I think I got the relaxation down pat, I have some experience with meditation). Thanks for any advice!

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/hcwkrj/how_to_find_deeper_arousal/

5 comments

  1. I have had this problem too. I’ve have my prostate pulsating before I even get my aneros in. Those are much better sessions usually. But, sometimes in the middle of them my arousal drops off. It’s not building up. Then I just stop at that point. Yes sometimes it’s calling me when I’m at work. Can’t do much at that point. And sometimes I’m not just aroused in the mind. I’m 53, so that could be part of it. I would love to find a way to really amp up the mind arousal. Mind is aroused the body always seems to follow. Porn doesn’t really do much but distract me. I do think it does desensitize arousal so I try to stay away from it. Guess it has to some how come up naturally. No forcing it. 🤔🤔🤔

  3. Try some weed before you start playing. It makes me insatiably hungry for anal.

  4. Ah I thought I was the only one, for me the craving to have something going on and out of my ass is still there but sometimes I just can’t get that “pleasure” I am looking for, but then sometimes, out of nowhere, it comes on

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