Keep having trad. orgasms during sessions, can’t get through this barrier?

Throwaway account, sorry about that.

I’m having a great time with my Aneros, but I’ve hit a barrier that I haven’t gotten past yet.

My routine is to start gentle contractions during the session, which develop into their own automatic contractions.

The problem is, the repetitive contractions are imitating the contractions you’d have during normal orgasms, and before 30 mins or so they will cause a normal orgasm for me.

Don’t get me wrong, I think it’s great progress so far. But it’s a barrier because normal orgasms just end the session.

Should I be doing different types of contractions to avoid this? Should I manually take over and stop the automatic contractions taking control?

Would appreciate advice, cheers.



  1. Contractions are tension caused by you. Tension is what makes you ejaculate. Relaxation is what causes you to have dry orgasms. I’d recommend to stop clenching. Good luck to you ❤️

  2. Do you mean a hands free wet orgasm? I haven’t had one of those yet.

    Are you stimulating your dick at all during your session? I find that if I’m on my side or stomach, I end up humping the floor/bed.

    One thing I read said to do sessions with some clothes on so you’re not tempted by your penis. I tried that a couple of times and it really focuses me on the sensations from the device only. Plus, when anything is in my ass, I don’t seem to get hard, making staying away from my dick pretty easy.

  3. I had it for like 5mo. Relaxation is the key and everyone is right that manual clenching is a kin to stroking it to be honest. Relax. Ride it out. This will pass.

  4. I pretty much have the same thing going on but mine has the really intense desire of needing to really rub one out after. You didn’t mention that intense feeling but figured I would ask. Did once have a back to back wet and still needed to finish off with a good hard jerk session.

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