Overdoing it?

Hey everyone, so last night was the first time I had really tried any real anal play. I had stuck a finger or two up there but as far as toys go, this was the first time.

So I know people say don’t set high expectations coming into your first session, but I feel like I had great success the first go at it and I loved it! I felt what can only be described as a small wave a pleasure throughout my prostate that went all throughout my body. But it felt almost uncompleted, almost as if there was another level of pleasure that my body wanted to reach but just couldn’t quite get there yet. Either way, I felt my ass clenching together and started to grind my hips deep into my bed as if my body wanted more and more. Gotta say it felt great!

Anyways, needless to say I loved it and am anxiously awaiting for another session. It’s been on my mind all day while I was at work and I just want another go at it. But I had a few questions though…. After last night’s first session, I want to have another go at it again tonight, but I’m afraid I don’t want to start overdoing it right out the gate. So my question is, how long apart do you need to typically wait between sessions? Also, how long should each session be? My first session was just under 2 hours, I’m assuming that’s normal but I’m not sure. Like I said, im new to all this and my first experience I say was a great one.

I should also add that I had jerked off the day prior and wasn’t feeling all too horny the day of, but I was surprised when my aneros arrived earlier than expected, so horny or not, I was gonna try it out regardless! So I feel like if my session was that great and I wasn’t even that horny, I can only imagine how it would be when I wait a few days and let it build. So if anyone has any insight or any input it would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!

How long do you wait between sessions? What is the average length that a session should be?

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/i9tr5e/overdoing_it/


  1. It’s going to vary from person to person. There’s no hard and fast rule, just listen to your body. The official company recommendation is to leave 2 or 3 days between sessions for best results.

    FWIW personally I’ve done like 5 days in a row before. Would the sessions have been better if I’d had longer breaks between them? Maybe, it’s hard to tell. I’ve certainly had good sessions on day 3 or 4.

  2. This will vary from person to person, as each one has their own health/preferences/schedule. For me, because of health reasons (my prostate doesn’t handle irritation very well), the minimum amount of time between sessions is 1 to 2 weeks. So yes, I do it twice per month usually. That also helps me enjoy it the few times I do it. Also, so much pleasure overwhelms my nervous system.

    As for the duration of each session, I usually take 2 hours to enjoy it. I haven’t had any orgasms yet.

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