Unable to have involuntaries

Hey so I got my aneros a month ago, and I’m at somethibg like 6-7 sessions in.
I tried sessions with weed, and with erotic hypno (kinkyshibby). My sessions usually last 1h30 and yesterday almost 2 hours. When I contract I have the aneros moving and I get really good sensations (I’ve tried big and small contractions) but I don’t think I have had involuntary contraction at this point so I can’t really get to orgasm. And I think that’s what’s missing.
I’d like to know how should it feel ? How to recognize it ? And how to make it happen ? If you have any advice I would apraciate it greatly !

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/ie2khu/unable_to_have_involuntaries/

4 comments

  1. Try mindgasm.net
    Their second lesson helped me to finally have involuntaries

  2. Ya it took me quite a while as well. LOL I think I had the most success after I just took the pleasure I was receiving for what it was… and stopped trying. It kinda just kept getting better and better. I have a rocker recliner that I sit it. I lay back a bit, have my feet up, started with contracting first…. squeeze about 70% of all the way and hold it there… keep holding for 2 mins if you can….the pleasure just comes… if you really relax as best you can… pretty much meditate. I will then add some grinding motions up and down every once in a while. Waves of pleasure run through me. Took me probably a good year before involuntariness came, but still had a ton of pleasure regardless. Stop trying so hard, take the pleasure for what it is and just go with it. At least speaking for myself it just kept getting better and better!

  3. Same thing wdstk said, don’t try some hard, go easy on yourself, for some like me it can take a few months to kick in and they aren’t that strong yet

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