I have seen a bunch of people say not to watch porn during your session. However my mind seems to wander a lot especially after a while of using my aneros. I found that keeping a video going on my phone and looking at it to get to close to what I think is a prostate orgasm and as I see feel myself drifting off to be helpful. Does anyone else do this? I have only tried once and it seemed to be helpful but I am not sure if I will be hitting a wall that allows for prostate orgasms but not a super o. Although if I continued I feel like I might have had a super o.
This session was the first in a while that I even watched porn before, normally I just get aroused with breathing and nipple play.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/k3b5v5/does_anyone_else_watch_porn_while_using_the_aneros/
Yep, it’s part of my routine of a “proper” session. Porn during a session is a double edged sword though and I get why it’s not for everybody. It **binds your attention** and the degree to which it does can interfere with being able to *listening in* to your body. In the beginning, I had problems with too, that but I found what did the trick for me.
**Defeat your** **FOMO** (fear of missing out). I was so used to soaking up every visual cue in order to maximise arousal, that it became a unconscious habit. I wouldn’t allow myself to let the attention drift from the porn to something else, because I could miss something “important” (the extra nice angle, the one split second of super hot facial expression, the cumshot… you get the idea). I guess many guys have this problem, there is an abundance of memes relating to it – usually along the lines of the *camera panning to the ugly guys face in the very moment you decided to cum*, resulting in a rather ruined experience.
What helped me a lot was to use headphones and **let the audio take a bigger part of the overall experience**. By doing that, I could drift away and close my eyes w/o losing the connection to the porn scene. It may not work very good with *high gloss studio porn* where everything is fake (esp. the moans), but it works wonderfully with the growing section of *amateur* and *independent* porn.
Big fan of porn and psychedelics together in my sessions.
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