Hi all,
So I have some questions, and hopefully you have answers:
Some weeks ago I ordered the Peridise, as I wanted to try out prostate stimulation. It was very cheap so I thought I would get this, and another Aneros toy. I’ve used it for some days, and it’s really “activated” my butt so to speak, with quivers, twitching, and similar. Some low generic pleasure too. Recently I started doing contractions without the Peridise, those meant to be done with the Aneros toys, and I’ve had quite a lot of success: My PC muscle / pelvic floor will at times twitch and “pulsate” quite a bit after a PC muscle hold, and I’ve been toying around with this and sphincter contractions/holds as well.
When the PC muscle started twitching, after some time, my prostate started twitching as well, and these twitches/contractions instantly generated pleasure, so much so that it was close to moan-worthy, and I know that if I could keep it up, it would keep on surging until finally orgasm. But so far I’ve not gotten there.
Today I got the Progasm, which I also ordered, and I have been doing some light sphincter-pc contractions, followed by pc-holds, then relaxing, if/when pc muscle starts contracting, relaxing into that, and see where it takes me. With the Progasm in, it was a bit harder to get those, but eventually it happened. And then the pleasure was quite higher than without the toy. Still, the problem is that after these involuntary contractions start, they seem to end on their own before it takes me to the next level (either that or I’m doing something wrong)
From my brief explanation: *What am I not doing, or should be doing?* These involuntary pc/prostate contractions, are they supposed to go on by themselves, or should you at some point “help” them by either nudging the sphincter or the pc muscle briefly? Or holding slightly?
And I notice whenever I get horny while I’m sitting these days, instead of getting an erection, my prostate turns on, and I’ve had it and the pc muscle start contracting on their own, though it’s usually short-lived. But wow, it feels good.
This brings me to another issue: Sometimes my perineum/prostate gets swollen enough, to the point where it’s actually uncomfortable sitting because it induces slight nausea or a general discomfort if I sit for too long, I mostly notice this if I haven’t yet used the toilet during the day. Is this common? I feel much better if I lay down or if my prostate doesn’t swell while sitting.
With the Progasm, could it be that its size is detrimental to contractions/holds that I maybe am not that good at yet, and perhaps the Maximus or Eupho would be better for now?
In any case, I’m having success, but things stop when everything is building up towards release/climax.
Hope some of you got some tips or tricks.
PS: I know the mental game is important, so I am relaxing as much as I can. But I guess I can improve there too.
Thanks.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/l2x5c9/beginner_progress_having_involuntary_contractions/
If your goal is a HFWO I can help with that. I’ve had 3/4 super Os over the past 8 months and it’s been completely random. The first time it happened I was only about 15 minutes into my session and it was starting to feel really good so I just relaxed. About 10 seconds later I was giggling and less than a minute after that I was shaking uncontrollably. I haven’t found any thing tying these few times together other than I didn’t ejaculate for 4 or 5 days. I actually prefer a HFWO more, but ideally I’d like to have atleast one super O each session prior to HFWO.
Sounds like you’re on the road to something exciting. I’m actually excited for you đź¤
It was the Progasm that did it for me plus some wine and a little weed. I’d been using the Helix, initially just mild pleasure, tingly feelings and twitching body. Kept it up every day for 2 weeks, but wasn’t achieving anything that felt amazing.
Then I got some weed from a friend and my Progasm arrived. I used the Progasm a few times in the days following without any weed etc, again pleasant enough but no cigar.
Then one evening I drank a few glasses, smoked a very small joint, put on some binaural beats on low volume on the laptop (no headphones) and put in the Progasm. Almost immediately delicious tingling and involuntary contractions started, it didn’t seem to matter what I did, whether squeezing my muscles or whatever, I just started to drift into a state of amazing repeating pleasure, my muscles jumping around down there uncontrollably. It was as if my whole nether regions had gone off on a journey beyond my control. I didn’t need to do anything.
It peaked and peaked in increasing waves of intensity until I was shaking uncontrollably, panting really fast and finally ended in a huge pulsating wave so intense I actually blacked out for what must have been a second. The Progasm had popped out of my arse!
Immediately afterwards I was quite dizzy and shaky, not the nicest feeling which thankfully subsided very quickly and I was left in a state of relaxation that was amazing. I’ve had three sessions like this in the last two weeks. It’s almost too much towards the end!
I don’t know if any of that helps, but good luck with the Progasm, it’s a pretty amazing thing!
Keep going!