Hi lovely folks of reddit,
Roughly a couple weeks ago, I bought the Aneros Progasm. This is my first prostate massager and I am having a hard time getting it working effectively. I have used it pretty much everyday, for a duration ranging from 15mn to an hour and a half.
While it does feel nice, I feel like it is not always hitting the right spot, nor is it stimulating it “hard enough”. I have tried various positions and upon contracting the muscles, none feel as good as when I just slightly moving it by hand or just even walkikg around with it.
Am I doing something wrong ? Any tips on how to get that intense pleasure hands free ?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/l50uof/not_getting_the_most_out_of_my_progasm/
IMO, the Progasm doesn’t have as much movement than the Trident series. I think it is a combination of how wide the base is and the shape of the tabs. I know some people here have removed the tabs for comfort and are happy with the result.
For me, I find the best use of the Progasm is when I put my Hitachi at the base and just clench down on it letting the vibrations cause the movement. That being said, I usually prefer the MGX Trident.
My question to you is, how experienced are you with prostate play? Do you know exactly when you are hitting the prostate? If not, it might just be an inexperienced thing. Try using the videos at mindgasm.net (works best with a VR headset you can put your phone in.)
Many guys take months or years to learn how to experience prostate orgasm, have patience!
>Roughly a couple of weeks ago
*Time*. Any posts you see where someone claims to have success on their first few sessions are **not the norm**. “Hard enough” isn’t what you’re after here. It takes some time to tune into the subtle sensations and train up some muscle control. Usually lighter contractions are more successful than harder ones, though you should experiment with all different avenues.
Two things I think may help. You said you use it almost every day. Try putting a day or two between each session. Do you find yourself craving a session after a day off? If you’re drawn back, that’s good!
Eventually buy a second model if you can. I started with the Progasm too. At some point I got a Helix Syn. That was before I had my first prostate orgasm. I think having a different model gave me some different sensations and allowed me to tune into the feelings I was looking for. Also, smaller models are known to have more movement
Keep at it yo! Remember to enjoy each session, even if nothing happens. Embrace it as a journey, forget the destination. 👃 💐