Prostate porn videos make it look easy..

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1. I’d be happy to feel what you’re describing. All I feel when I try is boredom.

2. I was skeptical myself several years ago, but rest assured Prostate orgasm is very real. I have posted videos myself that show me having instantaneous orgasms, but it has taken me many years to get to this point, but I encourage all men to pursue this phenomenon, because it is indeed wonderful!

3. Yes, the Aneros is designed for a super O. It takes a lot of practice and patience. Stick to one method. When you start to feel “stuck”, you need to adjust your mental perspective. Have zero expectations.

4. I’ve found that the closer I feel to Cumming the less I feel the pleasure waves. The pleasure waves are astonishing. I think if I can hold onto the pleasure waves I would eventually cum. I’m guessing that I’m trying too hard to orgasm instead of enjoying the ride. I do enjoy the ride but the need to cum gets overwhelming.

5. > I’m told I need to relax and do nothing…which can result in amazing feelings but no orgasm, it feels amazing.

   Cool, follow the feelings and enjoy. Stop measuring it by a goal and just enjoy the sensations. They will only increase with time/practice. You have to learn to appreciate the pleasure because if you’re expecting a traditional orgasm it will just make you impatient and frustrated. This takes time, don’t stress about it. After a while you will appreciate the pleasure more and subconsciously be better and creating/seeking it. This will help you progress from session to session.

   > I’m told I need to clench down via my kegels and anal contractions… Which feels amazing but no orgasm.

   Just to be clear – “clench” is a strong word… don’t bear down on it with full force, find a pressure that works for you. Follow the feelings, not the advice.

   > I see videos of guys fucking themselves and they cum in minutes, sometimes seconds!

   Some are faked (jacking before recording for example), and some guys are just in a different spot than you. Do you compare yourself to vids of other guys jacking off? probably not… or at least it would be weird to.

   > The guys that are fucking hard is that a simple prostate orgasm?

   From what I’ve come to understand, there’s an actual wet prostate orgasm (HFWO) and then there’s “pushing the cum out” via thrusting. From other posts it sounds like both are good but the dream is rolling dry orgasms. If you have a wet one there is a recovery period. If you’re just pushing cum out, you might not be orgasming (grain of salt and all that, I don’t participate in the thrusting stuff myself).

   > Is the Aneros designed for a super O?

   Well it’s designed to massage your prostate.

   Sounds to me like you’re conflating a lot of terminology that honestly has no relevance (it’s just forced terminology that we use to try and describe experiences). Just learn to enjoy what you get and things will build on each other. I know it’s frustrating but you’re learning a whole new sensation… Don’t try to equate a prostate orgasm with a traditional one, it’s so different and getting there is equally different. You have to explore and learn what works for you.

   As a more practical suggestion to help you progress, try the mindgasm.net stuff without a toy and see if it does anything for you, then try it with a toy.

6. 5x good feelings > one orgasm

   Enjoy what you have it’ll cum…

7. There are very different kinds of prostate stimulation and prostate orgasms. Someone getting auto-fucked by a machine or getting their ass blasted by a dido or whatever are having a *completely* different experience than what an Aneros does. Both can be legit. But don’t mistake seeking out one experience while trying to replicate the other.

   So yes, porn is not realistic or idealistic for what you are trying to achieve (or really, trying to replicate).

8. Let’s all be honest with ourselves….unless you post EVERYTHING that you video/take a picture of, you’re going to self-edit and only post the good stuff. So by the time someone posts a video, it’s only a good one. I played the other day for almost two hours with barely any leaking compared to normal. If I had recorded it, I would have deleted the video.

   Enjoy the process…it’ll get there eventually

9. I think there is a lot of behind the scenes prep that goes into those short videos. Sure, the more you practice, the easier it gets, but it still takes time to get fully warmed up. Here is a copy+paste of a comment I made here to reply to someone else.

   Try these :

   1. Get yourself nice and worked up first. You prostate won’t feel good right away, it needs to s’well up. Go ahead and watch some porn for a bit. You can even edge if you have the self control. You can do this with the aneros (or butt plug) in, just don’t worry about your prostate feeling good.

   2. Exercise your PC muscles. Try for at least 5 min day, 5 days a week, for 2-4 weeks. You’ll need them for the next step.

   3. Once your prostate is warmed up, begin by contacting both your PC and sphincter muscles. Try to slowly release your PC muscles while keeping your sphincter constant. There will be a sweet spot that should cause the toy to flutter and feel fairly good. It won’t be intense, but it should be noticeable. Your goal is to practice getting to this sweet spot so that it becomes second nature similar to practicing any other technique (proper stance for sports, shooting a gun, etc.) If you like a guide, look at mindgasm.net

   4. If you are still having difficulty identifying the property sensation, get yourself one of those massaging guns. Hold it to either a tab or the middle base of the aneros while inserted (I put a towel between the massager and the toy.) Practice finding the sweet spot while using the massager. I promise you’ll feel the sweet spot this way.

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