So, I had a interesting session yesterday. Sorry for the long post, but I feel like it is important to describe it in detail.
TLDR: ass in the air made me feel pleasure. VR Porn helped.
I was listening to Mindgasm lesson 2 again with earphones in (connected to the Quest2 VR headset I was wearing) while the Helix (the white one) was inserted. I was using Pigasus VR Player, it’s the only player so far that supports odd viewing angles and images and comic-files (hentai/furry one-pager are kinda working mostly).
As mostly I was getting involuntary contractions kinda early, but i tried to relax everytime the audio told me so. The contractions stop everytime at that point. Aside from the contractions (despite trying to concentrate on it’s feelings) I got no pleasurable feelings from it. I was on my back, pretty much spreadeagled. After the file ended I switched to some 2D porn that got me decently horny, and I noticed a buzzing. Though while it felt nice for like 20mins nothing changed. In between I also closed my eyes for minutes, but the porn wasn’t too distracting I think (just some repeating cowgirl-riding stuff, nothing with alot visual change).
The actual change probably came with putting my feet near my ass, knees bend outward so my legs pointed in a 45° angle. But then I lifted my butt up about 10cm in the air and suddenly I felt a cool/numbing feeling in the rear parts of my tights, as if the Aneros pulled a cold woodplank against my tights. I kept focussing on the feeling but it stayed at numb/cool. I opened my eyes again to watch some porn and suddenly I felt a pleasurable feeling, and tightness as if a big dildo was pressed inside, probably prostate swelling? I tried to relax but it again felt like my bellymuscles kept tightening up. Nippleplay at this point was not doing much to amplify the feeling. After minutes of this the VR-headset ran out of power and I only kept focussing the feeling, but without erotic sounds from the porn or the visuals (even while thinking about something sexy) the pleasure vanished again. I tried after minutes again some contractions but my spincter felt sore and I could barely control it without the PC-muscle.
I count this as a progress, even if I didn’t got a real pleasurewave. Anyone who gained progress from different positions like me? On all fours didn’t work for me, also the pillow under my ass didn’t do much, looks like I need to keep the butt in the air without assistence?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/miqyqr/any_favorable_position_other_than_lying_on_back/
I find switching from lying on my back to one side or the other, especially with the lower leg extended and the upper leg drawn up often triggers new rounds of orgasms.
I finally made the super O on my side with one leg drawn up, but practicing I really enjoyed having my feet up on an inflatable exercise ball, or else draped over the ball and gently rolling. Just on my back with knees up doesn’t seem to get me there for some reason.
> As mostly I was getting involuntary contractions kinda early, but i tried to relax everytime the audio told me so. The contractions stop everytime at that point.
If you experience involuntaries/pleasure, continue doing what you do and ignore any of my instructions to relax.
And regarding positions: Sounds good, find the position that works best for you. Explore, stay playful!
On porn: Though porn and diving into fantasies can help a lot, it can also distract a lot from the subtle feelings.
Using a sexy thought to ignite some pleasureable feelings and then stop the thoughts and focus completely on the feelings seems like the best way to grow them naturally.
Lesson 6 is about this.
Enjoy the journey! 🙂