Crossposted at r/prostateplay but since I’m now officially an aneros owner and user I wanted to post to this community as well for insights.
Hello everyone,
Longtime lurker on this sub and longtime player of my prostate. I started my journey with external stimulation, followed by a stretch where I built the confidence to use fingers inside. It took quite a while for me to realize that I was actually reaching up too far past my prostate, but really wasn’t until I bit the bullet and got a proper massager to understand how it would swell and shrink over the course of a session.
For the most part, I’d feel a periodic surge in pleasure before a pretty epic, wet orgasm for the first couple years of playing.
The first toy I got was a cheapo from Amazon that was actually pretty short and I never felt did a whole lot once inserted without manual manipulation of the handle. I’m a relatively big guy (6’2” and 200lbs) so I always wondered what a longer toy could do for the exercise.
Fast forward to today, I finally got myself an aneros helix syn trident and just finished my first session. I should note that I combined the toy with an episode of mindgasm, which I have found to be by far the most useful audio accompaniment to my journey. I also went with a thicker lube than the typical ky, specific for anal fun.
Doing the various muscle exercises in a wave made quite a difference vs anything I’ve experienced before. While I didn’t cum and also didn’t feel any whole body waves, laying on my back with my feet on the ground, I definitely started involuntary shaking in my legs as I would alternate between flexing and relaxation. Anyone else experience this? It wasn’t painful by any means nor was it super incredible in terms of feeling, but it was definitely something I noticed and, at least as far as I could tell, was not something I was doing intentionally.
Would love to hear if this is common in terms of experience on the road or if I shouldn’t read too much into it.
Thanks to this community in advance for any perspective. Super thankful to have a group like this to be able to share these stories and experiences.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/mqtad5/experienced_beginner_recap_and_questions/
That’s typically what I experienced in my first sessions. I haven’t achieved any prostate orgasms yet but basically what you have described is essentially how my first many sessions went. I can now achieve the whole body p-waves (I think that’s what it is anyway) that people describe on here where I have a low key wave of pleasure and sometimes tingling in my torso and legs. It’s taken me many sessions to get from where you are to where I am now and I’m not sure how I have somehow now found the spot inside me where it feels like the toy is supposed to be hitting.
All I can say was it took me time and long sessions to get to where I am now. I just bought Eupho and it seems to hit the spot quicker for me now than my initial Helix Syn trident did but this may just because I can understand the anatomy of the area down there better at this point.
Time and patience is what I reccomend from my experience. I know people on here say that stuff all the time but that and not trying too hard really are the keys to progression I think. Some of my best sessions recently have been finding that the toy is on the pleasureable spot and just lightly holding it there and not trying to contract my muscles to push it against that spot and trying to just let it guide me. I really feel like trying to force it against the spot makes me lose the pleasureable waves that I can currently achieve.
Good luck.
Thank you for sharing!
I am still pretty new in my journey, just a few months.
But that is the same position I lay in and I have the same leg shaking. Nothing mind blowing but doesn’t feel bad or wrong by any means. I think of it as my body getting super excited by what’s going on. No significant p-waves or super O for me yet but I have some of the same subtle body tingling that happens momentarily. Feels like I am in the rewiring or awakening process and a few more sessions will get me closer! I use mindgasm as well. My sessions always eventually end in WHFO but haven’t had time really to keep going after that happens since it takes like 1.5hrs to get to that point lol