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  1. If you cant get horny without porn then maybe that is a separate issue for yourself. It is ideal to enter a session horny, rather than just sticking in your aneros and some porn.

  2. This is my s/o’s feeling..he thinks it’s too distracting and can’t multitask focusing and watching. I’ve offered to help if I can but keeping him aroused via physical stim and also using a toy is difficult..he needs to practice on his own when he’s feeling in the mood for prostate stuff (lol) but has really only tried the mindgasm audio and muscle contractions with a plug in (no success yet) but wants me to be involved if he’s doing anything more..we/he have a ways to go..but I absolutely think getting aroused atleast until the good feelings start and then ideally focusing on the good feelings will help maintain arousal and thus keep the prostate swollen enough to feel it during ‘massage’..it hasn’t worked yet to just get down to it and expect the prostate to produce good feelings without arousal of some sort.. :/ with arousal, yes he feels it. If the sensations your feeling are good with no prior arousal then it’s possible (I’d assume) bc everyone’s different.

  3. It helps. In a total catch 22 once you get PGASMS fairly reliably, getting out and setting up for an Aneros session will probably get you horny in and of itself.

  4. If you don’t feel anything at all without porn that should ring some alarm bells. Maybe you should dial it down by a lot and reconnect to your body.

  5. Can you clarify what you mean when you say, “porn is too distracting.” Is it too distracting to get aroused or too distracting that the toy doesn’t work?

    I watch porn or listen to erotic hypnosis when I use my aneros, but I don’t focus on it or worry about closing my eyes and just laying there.

    Now, I will say it is critical to be aroused before using an aneros. For that I’ll edge a bit to porn.

  6. Yes, being horny is extremely important. If you can’t get horny without porn, you need to solve that problem first.

    Also, keep in mind being hard does not = horny.

  7. Yes you need to be in the right mindset. Very horny. Prostate orgasm can’t be forced like when you traditionally rub one out. If you’re not aroused, it might be better to have a session later when you are aroused. Most likely your session will be a lot more pleasurable.

  8. Man these replies have finally gotten through to me. I’ve had a major porn problem and I want to be happy and explore myself. If porn is get in the way of my backdoor adventures then its time for it to go

  9. I watched porn while getting used to the sensations. I found looking at pictures can be better, more imaginative and less distracting. I am finally where I don’t need porn, but sometimes I’ll watch porn if I really want to. I used to watch porn a lot, but lately it feels good I do not need it as much

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