Hi all, new to this thread. I recently bought the Aneros Helix Trident model, which is my first Aneros product. Whilst I’m not a novice with anal sex toys, I’m hardly a pro, but given the smaller size I wasn’t particularly worried. I did a lot of research about how best to use the aneros, tips for beginners etc, so I knew the importance of feeling the moment and not to expect too much at first. I set aside a good couple of hours for my first go, and after getting myself relaxed and aroused, I popped it in. At first it felt a little uncomfortable, but this sensation quickly subsided as my muscles adjusted and it fit very nicely. I started touching my body and focusing of my breathing for a while, before I started gentlly flexing my muscles and feeling the sensations this led to. At first, I wasn’t really getting much, apart from some involuntary anal twitching, and the contact against my prostate was a very strange feeling to me, but as I kept tensing, I started occasionally to get some mild pleasurable sensations, and some mild spasms. My error at this point was to keep trying to get these sensations and not focussing on what I was feeling and I spent about half an hour not really achieving anything. At this point I was starting to lose interest, and my mind was wandering and I barely felt aroused at all. I decided that I would put on some porn to help, I watched my favourite video – and this made a huge difference. Even without flexing my muscles I was feeling pleasurable sensations, which I didn’t realise at first because I was focusing on the porn. Slowly I started flexing, which felt really good, and I really tried to focus on the porn which was helping. I was doing this for about 20 mins, and this pleasurable feeling was really building up, and it felt like I was getting close to a regular orgasm, I could feel it building up. My technique at this point was lying on back, with my knees bent and feet on the bed, and as I tensed I put my legs together and squeezed and pulled my bum off the bed, which stimulated my penis slightly as I was pulling my balls back with my legs which stretched the skin of my whole penis – which felt very pleasurable. I should say that whilst this was happening, I had a very clear goal, which was to reach this peak that I was feeling, I wasn’t doing as advised and taking the pleasure as it was coming, but I could feel it building up and I was really enjoying it. Eventually, I got to a peak, and my stomach starting convulsing and I started spasming as I felt an orgasm come, which turned out to be wet, and I came over my stomach. This was all without touching my penis with my hands. The orgasm was very good, but nothing mind-blowing, and to be honest, whilst I enjoyed the experience, it was a lot of work, and I’d rather just jerk off normally. My question is, is there anything I could/should do differently to maximise this experience more? Is there a method or such to be able to not have a wet orgasm, Whilst I experienced lethargy after ejaculation, I did notice that it wasn’t as much as normal, and I was horny again in perhaps 2 minutes after, which is much faster than normal. Any tips/advice would be really appreciated!