Hi, this is a throwaway account for obvious reasons.
About 2 or 3 months ago I purchased a Aneros Helix (the white plastic one) and I’ve been trying to explore parts of myself that I have neglected. For the past 3 weeks I’ve been going aless because of convenience and now I’m able to achieve a wet hfo consistently (every session) both aless and with aneros, they are seriously the best orgasms of my life but I want to progress myself to dry orgasms that everyone talks about. If anyone could give me advice or a tip I would deeply appreciate it. I don’t know if this is important or not but hardly every touch my penis sexually anymore, and I have sessions usually every 3-4 days.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/opbec0/i_can_not_have_a_dry_o/
I’m my experience I have HFWOs when I don’t sufficiently relax during the phase where the pleasure is building. Not enough focus on relaxing the building tension and I can trigger ejaculation.
I will occasionally do this on purpose, especially toward the end of a session but if I want to enjoy multiple non-ejaculatory Os I’ll really focus on relaxing everything in my pelvic area. Works for me anyway.
ugh im jealous haha, i have dry orgasms and i want to have hfwo instead
I can’t have the wet one. Sometimes it feels like it’s going to happen but it doesn’t. I try to avoid any kind of penile stimulation and it’s hard to describe but I am completely relaxed down there, I don’t flex or anything, everything is involuntary. I also don’t produce much precum.
So either it just depends on person or there’s some specific thing you do. From what you’re saying and from my experience I assume wet one is probably somewhere on the scale from ruined orgasm to normal ejaculatory orgasm. I hope it happens to me sometime so I can see for myself, unless it’s all I’m going to get after it, then I don’t want it 😀