I’ve been using aneros regularly for the past few months with some steady progress that I wanted to share.
Usually I put it in and get consistent pleasant sensations (sometimes in low waves) for about an hour and then stop from tiredness.
I recently went a whole week and a half with no aneros while still being horny (I’m 20) and got a-less sensations for the first time ever. I would feel a slight tingle, focus on it, and it would feel like the aneros was in even though it wasn’t, my dick got hard and I felt the pulsing at the tip of the penis in time with my prostate that so many people describe for the first time.
Finally, earlier today I used the aneros again. It was a short session -and still no orgasm- but for the first time I felt a tingling warmth swell from my pelvis over my body, and I felt something build, like my whole body was about to sneeze, and then I totally lost it, fell out of “the mood”/mindset and ended the session.
I’ve heard people describe the buildup to a prostate orgasm as the “full body sneeze” so this along with my first aless sensations makes me pretty excited. Even though there was no orgasm it all felt really good.
I’m going to try to go a whole week with with no aneros again (and this time try to abstain from jerking off but still stay horny which is a little hard at my age) and see what happens.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/ovjjgs/steady_progress_almost_an_orgasm/
Good luck. Similar here. No orgasm but each session feels slightly better. Love the journey
Forget about everything u read and know and just go with the flow and focus on the sensation, you sounded like u are trying hard to have an orgasm when things are building up, that makes u lose it. Orgasm isn’t the goal here, because there’s no destination(orgasm), relax and enjoy the whole journey, that’s the orgasm itself with different intensity as the wave comes and go like different intensity of waves, surrender to it and give up controlling it.
Awesome! Those feelings are so delicious, takes me back to the journey of discovery unlocking all the Orgasmic potential locked inside us, just waiting to explode.
Taking some time between rides is good thing to allow mind and body to fully realize what’s happening and move on. Pushing to much too fast can be counterproductive. Keep riding, relaxing, and enjoying!!