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  1. If you should try to concentrate on the feelings and see where they lead you.

    Or, if you have the ability to stay aroused by fantasizing, then try that.

    If you’re unable to, then do whatever it takes to stay aroused.

    Ultimately do what feels best, but try to stay aware of your feelings and grow them. Stay relaxed, concentrate, and enjoy!

  2. No. Close your eyes and think about all the feelings you are experiencing down there. Every little twitch or body movement.

  3. You definitely can, but most would recommend not, at least at first. It can be a distraction and you may be more tempted to fall into old habits and touch yourself/masturbate the way you’re used to. You’re trying to build a new habit and “rewire” your brain to experience pleasure in a new way. But the most important thing is figure out what works for you, no hard and fast rule.

  4. The worst combination is porn that doesn’t work and you losing focus.
    As a beginner I’d say stay off it but you can use it before.

  5. The thing stimulating yourself is the aneros, and you should avoid everything that would take your focus away from the anal stimulation. And since you seem to be new to this, you should focus on learning to feel with your anus and prostate.

  6. Watching porn will only distract your attention from the subtle sensations you are experiencing from your prostate. Especially if you are new at this, you should focus all your attention to what’s going on in your butt. If you have sensitive nipples you could use your free hands to stimulate them.

  7. i find porn kind of distracting. however, i will listen to some gonewild audio…. put my headset on, and become lost in a voice and story that i feel sometimes i am actually there. but to each their own

  9. The best is softcore or tease stuff that is in the background rather than the focus. Something you can just ignore for a while and close your eyes.

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