I’ve been trying the aneros on and off for close to 10 years now with mixed success. I feel like I had something like an orgasm or possibly an orgasm a few years ago but have struggled to replicate that experience since.
The first time I felt what I think was an orgasm I had been doing a session for around 3 hours with the original helix model and I felt what started to feel like a regular orgasm building but it started to spread. The sensation started in the tip of my penis then spread outwards envolping my legs and whole abdomen. I haven’t experienced anything like that since until recently.
I think the main sticking point for me has been trying to relax, it’s hard to find time to do a session let alone drop everything else going on in my head to enjoy it. I’ve also tried multiple models with varying degrees of success. I now have a helix, helix syn, eupho, progasm, an njoy wand and a few different vibes.
I recently decided to try and throw weed into the mix and see if that helped.
Well…
I’ve tried a few sessions with some great results feeling waves of pleasure eminating out of my prostate and periods where I feel like I get consumed by it all and almost black out.
My last session though as intense. I decided to put in my helix syn in a few hours before my session as I was already feeling horny and figured it would be a good way to get things ready. I worked for a few hours having to stop every now and again as I felt pressure waves at certain points building.
After a couple of hours I used the vapouriser to help me relax a bit and get a nice buzz on. That helped me feel a little more energised and I could feel myself getting more aroused. I pulled out the helix and decided to try the progasm as I haven’t used that one yet while high. I moved the bedroom and settled in and just tried to relex.
It didn’t take long for sensations to build and I could feel pleasure waves moving through my legs, abdomen and penis. From there things got more intense and I just felt myself sort of drift off. At one point I remember feeling these long drawn out pleasurable sensations similar to ejaculation and then moving into sensations that triggered visual stimulation as well even with my eyes closed, I started to see vivid colours and and at the most intense point I felt this pulse start to build up. As the pulse increased I could see what looked like a saw tooth patern emerge in sync with the pulses I was feeling in my prostate. After that point I looked at my watch and realised I had only been doing the session for around 30 minutes. I wasn’t able to get anything to really build to the same level of intensity after that and finished off with an incredible trad orgasm.
I’m not really sure if these sensations are prostate orgasms or just pleasure waves, the weed doing it’s own thing or a combination of all three. I’ll definately be trying that combination again though.
I’m not sure how to make the sessiosn longer though without either losing interest or not being able to keep those sensations going.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/u6ujuq/progress_with_weed_and_progasm/
I think that’s an extra step you’re advancing in the process. The colors and symbols do happen here abs there with me but not often.
Next time follow the same step by step but introduce nipple stimulation. It should push you to the edge
Try not to completely define the “edge” or think of prostate orgasms as “going over” the edge.
The prostate orgasm comes in many different forms for me. Sometimes they are pwaves, that grow so intense that they are truly orgasmic, and you just arrive at a state of whole body pleasure, and just float there for a minute or two (or 5). Sometimes they are flutter of your muscles in the pelvic floor that send sharp waves down your legs and reflect back up through your whole body. Sometimes they are intense back to back contractions very similar to a traditional orgasm without ejaculation.
I enjoy all types, but revel in the kind that just make you feel like you are floating on slow calm waves of orgasmic bliss without all the tension and fast contraction. I’ve seen many refer to certain types of prostate orgasms as “calm seas orgasms” which is what I call that long drawn out orgasm that just seems to hover with you.
The hard part for me has been (and I still struggle here some) is accepting that those orgasms are just that, orgasms. I often get mentally stuck looking for a release in those types of orgasms, but am learning to accept them as they are and let them grow if my body wants them to.
Regarding session length: Do what works for you. Length isn’t that big of a deal. Consider it this way. In the past you would masturbate using your penis, and even if you were skilled at edging you would only really get one orgasm and you were done. For most people that’s 10-20 minutes of feeling pretty good with 10-20 seconds of orgasm at the end (then the lethargy sets in). With your session you had 30 minutes most of which were either orgasmic in pleasure intensity or very close (maybe more intense than a traditional penis centered orgasm). I’ll take the 30 mins over a traditional wank any day.
I would say stay the course you are on, and build up the will power to not finish with a traditional orgasm. Take a break instead. Then see if the desire returns along with the pleasure after the break.
For reference: My sessions start with a hit or two to get the relaxation going. I get my Helix situated and get comfortable. First 5 minutes I’m ramping up with moderate pwaves, and within the first 10 mins I usually find that calm seas level of orgasm and just float there. That might last 2-3 mins or 20 mins. 2nd half hour I usually start to need to add nipple stimulation and on good days have minute or minutes long orgasms in waves of 2 or 3, then completely lay still and relax and reflect for a minute or two, then go back to actively stimulating nipples and repeat. This stage is 30 minutes to an hour. The remainder of my session depends on the day. Sometimes I’m satisfied and just close my eyes (occasionally dozing off) and sometimes I continue with the session with varying degrees of success.
When I feel like things are dying down I end the session (usually without ejaculation, but sometimes I still can’t resist the intense release and go for it).