I first got an aneros way back in 2013ish, but never got anywhere with it. I think I was too young and inexperienced to really let go. Jump ahead to this year, and I’ve started getting into prostate play again. I got my start with the Njoy wand, and fairly quickly was able to get a wet prostate orgasm, which was great but not the multiply dry O’s I had been hoping for.
This brings me to getting an aneros for the second time. I got a Maximus model and the first time I slipped it in I instantly felt something new and exciting. In that first session I was able to ride the new feelings and get hit with wave after wave of pleasure, resulting in 3-5 dry orgasms back to back. It was incredible. I did take an edible beforehand, and so it is hard for me to recall exactly how it felt and how I got there.
Since that first session, I’ve not been able to achieve the same success. I have nice tingly feelings all over, warmth, tightness, even waves on one of my recent session, but no dry o’s back-to-back like that first time. I’m not sure if I’m trying too hard or am forgetting something, but I’m at a loss on how to progress again. I definitely notice my prostate and sensations more regularly, even without anything in me, but that isn’t resulting in better sessions with the aneros. Does anybody have any tips or advice for getting back to the promised land?
TL;DR: My first aneros session resulted in multiple dry O’s. I haven’t been able to do it again. Any tips?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/yodeeb/help_getting_back/
Practice more and keep going. Don’t take edibles every session.
what helped me first achieve dry orgasms was actually trying not too cum (ejaculate.) so everytime i had a session i would just try too be aroused as possible and just feel really good.
one day after a few sessions i realized that i was starting too feel really good and that’s when it dawned on me. there was “something” there….sometimes it happened when i was close too the edge, or sometimes when i just relaxed. sometimes it happened when i contracted, or sometimes when u pinch my nipples.
there was this build up of pleasure, but it would stop. Long story short i found out that THAT is my dry orgasm. It’s like a crescendo and there’s no end too it. Now i’m having dry orgasms everyday all day. I even had a dry orgasm when i got my nipples pierced it felt soo good i wasn’t even embarrassed lol.
where im personally at now is edging the dry orgasms (i’m not allowing myself too cum at all during my sessions) and it is a crazy crazy experience.
so basically, you need too rethink what an orgasm means too you, do what feels good too you and don’t be so pressed for results, you’ll miss the little things 🥰
I find that in the past if I had an extremely good session, I nearly expected the next session to be the same. This would put pressure on the session and would only lead to quiet frustration when nothing major was happening quickly.
Just remind yourself that this next session won’t be your last session so it doesn’t have to be mindblowing. You’re building up to it. I thoroughly enjoyed the journey and learning curve for the last few years.
Every session is different and conditions aren’t exactly the same every time. Your body might be more tired, less hydrated, surroundings might be noisier and more distracting.
Just take every session as it comes. It’s all worth it in the end
NIPPLE PLAY !!! Get those nipples and aereolas sensitized.. they’ll feel like they are totally connected to your prostate… amazingly huge help to get you over the top!!