For me, the best results I’ve had is when I’ve been really horny.
I find porn too distracting though, and simply abstaining doesn’t really do a lot to raise my horniness.
My wife has headed out for the evening and left the knickers that she wore today on my pillow for my session – hopefully smelling them will boost me into the zone.
Anyone else tried this?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/z4o03m/how_do_you_boost_your_arousal_during_a_session/
I know what you mean. I usually try to do an edible but when I don’t and not feel so aroused my sessions are a dud. I did come up with something that works for me to get aroused. I record myself and knowing that I’m being an exhibitionist gets me in the mood.
For me it’s porn, but I usually watch with the sound off. I find that the sound can really be hit or miss and keeping it off allows my mind to fill in the blanks. Then when a pleasure wave hits I tend to stop watching the porn and just focus on the feeling. The porn definitely distracts me if I try to keep watching it.
I also find porn really distracting if it’s taking a while to find something I really like. I’ve personally found that using pornhub usually leads to big lulls because it can take time to find a good video. Instead I actually like using a Reddit account that is specifically for porn and nothing else. This way you can curate it it with subreddits that you really enjoy. I also follow people’s accounts who tend to put out content that I like so I can quickly find stuff I like.
I lay on back feet flat, totally relax. Let the smaller devices do the work on their own. And after an hour or so = magical.