I just can’t do it. I am so close to giving up all together. 3 years of nothing. Made a few waves every now and again but they are not consistent. I’ve never even had involuntaries. I’ve been consistently playing at least a few times a month for the last 3 years and it’s just so disheartening not being able to do something i’ve put this many hours into.
I’ve tried it all, read probably over 1000 posts and guides on it but I just can’t do it.
I’m not sure what it will take but I just don’t know what to do, I have experimented with so many toys and positions, breathing techniques and meditation. They have just not worked for me.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/150re6p/no_motivation_3_years_of_trying/
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If its legal where you are,it is in 17 states try some hemp products like delta 8 or HHC i was like you and the door swung wide open with this.
I am in the same position, I’ve only had involuntaries twice in a good few years! I want to steer clear or any drugs so just trying to find a relaxing time to achieve something at least. I do feel pleasure but still nothing crazy, it may be down to lube as the toy will move more freely!
I’m gonna try coconut oil for the first time tonight. Good luck but don’t give up. Just do it to enjoy and the rest will come which I’m sure you have heard people say many times