So, I really want to get started with some prostate massage for health and pleasure reasons. My wife is supportive and willing to make it part of our sexy time. I’m a little overwhelmed. A quick search returns a butt-load of products. I have a very small amount of self exploration. Where do I begin?
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I own an Aneros Helix and I strongly recommend it. Read around here to find the right product for you, though. The most important investment you are going to make is your time, not the product. Here are a couple of tips to that end:
* start with solo stuff…your wife doesn’t have a prostate, so she doesn’t know what does and does not feel good; you have to learn more about your body before she can please you
* set aside a small amount of time each week where you perform solo exploration…if you like to meditate or live in a 420 legal state (or don’t but are OK with the risks of getting high wherever you live) both will help…be extremely patient; I have never experienced the much coveted “super-orgasm,” but I have experienced many an enhanced orgasm with my Helix
* talk to your wife about what you want and what you like…and do it sooner than later; if you want a finger up your butt while she blows you, ask her how she feels about that…if you want to try pegging, ask her if she’s game; don’t make your sexual desires a “project” that you are going to develop despite her feelings (you said she was game, so please excuse me if I’m getting this twisted…a *lot* of guys have problems indicating what they want when they try butt stuff–I am married and I know from firsthand experience…what I am trying to say is “do not be afraid to ask for what you want, even if she isn’t down”)
Depending on your height. 5’7-6 Helix/MGX are good choiced. Under 5’6 sgx might be better. Taller than 6’3 ps new might be the right one. Just some thoughts.
How’s the exploration going?