I just finished my 4th and 5th and as usual I feel like I haven’t progressed nowhere. I only feel feel small waves of pleasure every now and then. But not too often. Sometimes I feel like I’m building up to an orgasm but then it goes nowhere. I haven’t had any precum neither. What am I do wrong? Haven’t had any involuntary contractions either.
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Stop expecting things. When you expect, you force it, and when you force it, nothing happens.
My suggestion is have a session where you just expect to enjoy yourself. Not blow your mind, not experience new inheard of waves of pleasure. Just have fun. Put on some porn you like, and just focus on what feels nice. No expectations, no forcing it.
Its like hypnosis. If you try to force a trance, nothing is going to happen. If you try to force the feelings, they wont happen.
Try that! Dont be discouraged! Just don’t expect so much.
You have to be patient,
there is this rewiring phase at the beginning
also, from my experience, details can make the difference,
relax, dont wait anything, try to live the moment, do it coaxingly, then harder, be imaginative, try different positions, read online from other users and above all, learn to listen to your body, it is the best adviser
Try abstaining from masturbation before and after each session. If you can handle no ejaculation between two separate sessions with a rest day in between it can really jump start your journey and re wiring. Give it a shot!
Also read what bzoler and throw away the tea bag had to say very carefully. It’s the best kind of advice