My wife and I have been in a statistically sexless marriage since about a year after we married. In other words, less than 10 times a year. The novelty of say sex on a week, or twice a month wore off. And then from say 8 times per year with the start of year two we have gone down to 2 to 4 times per year during the last 10+ years. At first I was so angry – but know what – I love her and I cannot change her. So, I learned to live with the situation, take responsible control of my own sex life, have fun and enjoy the kiss and snuggle relationship she and I have.
Key to all this was aneros. In 2002 I experience discomfort then pain from prostate congestion. I went to the doctor – she suggested I have a look at the High Island Health website. HIH was the parent of Aneros – the Aneros brand came a little later with a sexual focus, whereas HIH was focused on health. I bought a device which looks just like the MGX. It brought me pleasure and relief. Thankfully my wife has no problem with me indulging in prostate play on a largely don’t ask don’t tell basis.
Those 2 to 4 times per year my wife and I do make love now are changed as well. Tired of struggling to climax and wearing her out and causing her pain, I decided to forego my climax. This bothered her at first, until I reassured her that it was more fun for me that way. And it is. I enjoy it, give her how many orgasms she wants, then we call an end to the lovemaking session. I am filled to the brim with bonding hormones. If ever we become statistically sexual again, that is the kind of lovemaking I want. It actually feels better not to ejaculate. I do have a dry orgasm of a sort, but very mild.
Within a day or two I follow up with a lengthily Classic Helix session – after which I have one or more intense dry orgasms. Sometime after that I am treated to an exquisite wet dream, which in my view is the very best way to release seminal fluid. Although a good milking is fun too.
Source: https://www.aneros.com/blogs/the-joy-of-the-sexless-marriage/