I had a breakthrough with my aneros this weekend and nearly made it all the way. The problem is I was on a rare weekend away and alone, without distraction. I’d like to now incorporate the aneros into mine and my wife’s bedroom play so I can learn to enjoy it other times than when I’m by myself. Anyone have suggestions on how best to reach a super o with a significant other?
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I would think it depends on your partner. First find out what they think about butt play and then lead in with the pleasure of prostate play.
Depending on your partner I’d tackle the “is it gay” and “ass is dirty” concerns head on before your partner brings it up. Just knowing that you’ve already thought about their concerns can really help start the conversation.
Try inserting the toy before sex, so your body can start to become accustomed to it. Then, have an extended foreplay session before sex (your wife will mostly likely enjoy that too!). During that time, you can start doing contractions, as you would if you were alone. When you’re starting to really feel good (and she is ready too), then go for the main act. I can definitely recommend sex with the Aneros in… your thrusting (along with your contractions), will cause movement of the toy that intensifies your sensations and your eventual climax. Good luck… and if you want, let us know how it goes!
So just an update on this. Put the aneros in, took a couple hits off my THC cart, and laid in bed watching tv using the do nothing approach. After 30 min I start to get the involuntaries, turn off tv and lie on my back and focus my breathing and imagination on erotic thoughts. Words cannot describe the sensations I was feeling. Definitely felt like a dry O and I had some full body sensations and pulsations. This was all with my wife laying next to me. After about an hour I decide to take a break and just lie there. My wife turns her phone off to go to sleep, turns over to face me and I tell I think I finally figured out this toy. She proceeds to stroke my stomach and move down to my penis. I really let loose at this point and got a couple more dry Os before she lubed me up and gave me the best hand job of my entire life.
Lessons learned: breathing is key, as soon as I noticed I was holding my breath due to the immense pleasure I had to remind myself to breath through it and boy did it pay off!