I’m floored. I’m lucky to have had pretty good luck with the aneros from the beginning. Though, I did have some experience with prostate stimulation before I ever tried the aneros.
This all started for me maybe 8 or 9 yrs ago, in my mid 20s, when an older woman (late 40s) who I was fooling around with talked me into letting her slip a finger inside me while she was edging/blowing me. I reluctantly agreed, but a huge part of our dynamic was her teaching me new things with her mostly focused on me. She loved exploring my body and I miss the fuck out of those edging sessions, and even more so the forced orgasms (she would legit make me cum 3-5 times over an hour or two). Anyway, she made me really comfortable before sliding her finger into me, and just left it there while she continued to play with me. After a while, she started giving me a light prostate massage (at the time, I had no idea what this was) and 20 minutes later I’m shaking and moaning like the most over dramatic female porn star as I cum buckets down her throat. I’ll never forget squeezing this woman’s body with my shaking legs as I opened my eyes gasping for air when I came back to reality. It was extremely intense.
Fast forward to 2yrs ago, and I’m talking with a pervey friend who was reading a book about the ultimate orgasm. She was adamant that guys have a g-spot and that we can have just as intense orgasms as she can. I instantly remembered the experience in my 20s and told her about it… she then opened my eyes to the world of prostate stimulation.
I spent a year trying a couple different prostate stimulators, 2 or 3, plus one of my wife’s dildos, but nothing really worked. The dildo was too much, and the rest really just felt like I had something in my ass, which wasn’t a huge turn on for me. I will admit, there was one massager that had a vibrating knob on the end of it that did feel pretty good, but very different from what I had experienced prior, and I had to kind of sit on it and rock back and forth to get any real enjoyable sensation.
Up until that point, I hadn’t done any research and went purely off of what the nice women at the sex shop recommended to me. About 1yr in, I googled for more info and found the aneros. Read a few user experiences, and they seemed to line up with what I had experienced previously with my older lady friend. Later that week, I found a place that sold the aneros, and the nice woman at this sex shop steered me towards the classic model. I don’t even know what it’s called, but it’s the white plastic small one. Got home, lubed it up, and inserted it. 45 minutes later I had some really great sensations from it, but didn’t get all the way there. So, I jerked off with it in and had a mini panic attack taking it out – it’s just not as comfortable coming out post nut as it going in while horny.
I saw some potential, so I looked up recs on how to use it and found one that recommended filling a condom with lube, inserting the aneros into the condom, tying it off, lubing that up, and then inserting, and smoking some weed while you waited 10 minutes to get comfortable. After that, tease yourself a bit, but no touching other than light finger drags over your balls / shaft. The focus is on your entire body, not just your junk.
The first time I did that, I had wave after wave of intense pleasure that made me shake and spasm. I believe I had 4 or 5 dry orgasms before jerking myself off at the peak of one of the waves. I did this maybe 3 or 4 times over 6 months to a year, and highly enjoyed it. The sensation is like I’m making sensual love to myself. It’s really hard to describe, but it’s like I lose control and it’s a feedback loop of me feeling like I’m making love to myself that feels amazing and gets more intense as I react to the feelings, which produce more intense feelings. It’s very bizarre at first.
Fast forward to last night. I break out the butt toy, lube it up with the rubber, insert it, smoke a strong sativa, and wait. 15 mins in I started to feel really deep sensations that started to radiate outwards from my lower back. Suddenly I was hyper aware of my own body and couldn’t keep my hands off my chest, my ribs, my stomach, and the V going down to my junk. I felt weirdly feminine about it, but in a way that made me really turned on by my own body and how it was responding to my touch. It felt like the cover of a romance novel where a woman is naked draped in billowing silk on a bed, if that makes sense? I dunno, hard to explain. After 3 or 4 waves building and dropping off, I hit a big lull and decided to try pushing my cock and balls between my legs and arching my back a bit, as suggested online. Suddenly, I got overwhelmed with sensation that made me almost lock up, pushing my hands down into my mangina as I writhed around moaning and spasming. I have no idea how long this lasted as I pretty much blacked out. I do remember the last wave being so intense I was dry orgasming so hard every muscle in my body was flexed, and right at the peak I started cumming hands free. The first contraction as I stated cumming shot me into outer space. I couldn’t breathe and probably sounded like I was dying as I swear I felt every last drop of the largest load I’ve ever shot in my life pump out of my body in slow motion. It was by far the biggest most intense orgasm I’ve ever had in my life. When I came to, I laid there trying to catch my breath for 10-15 minutes lightly shaking in a state of complete bliss. I knew I couldn’t handle another one so I reached down and slowly pulled the aneros out, rolled over and just laid there for 20 minutes.
The weirdest part was that it felt almost feminine without really feeling feminine. Like, my body responded in a way that made me squirm like a woman, but it felt totally solo, just me focusing on my body without even realizing I had anything in my ass. So weird.
Anyway, highly recommend it. Keep trying and read about the lube filled condom method. I can’t stress highly enough how you need to experience what I did.
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/h8kukc/the_biggest_orgasm_of_my_life_and_how_i_got_there/
That was beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
You should write a novel for Harlequin Romance.
Amazing story. You ever tried this without the weed or poppers instead?
I’ve been doing P-play for a year now. At first I had an inadvertent Super O with the aneros and one through Aless. I say inadvertent because I can’t duplicate them. Have come close a handful of times. And now I’m for the most part able to have P-waves and regular mild orgasms. Plenty of dry Os. And they’re slowly growing in intensity. My sessions sometimes like you stated have a drop off or a lull after awhile. In your case though I find it interesting that pushing your junk down in between your legs helped. I have never tried this. Anyone else tried this technique before ? Is it fairly successful ? I’m not against anyone using poppers or weed to get there, but I can’t because of random testing with my job. Seems though through a bit of research it definitely helps lots of people make huge gains. Like me I wonder if I’m at a disadvantage by trying this drug free. Also curious if there’s a alternative to poppers or weed that would help. My mind says more meditation & more deep relaxation. Without said drugs, getting to that state seems difficult.
> The weirdest part was that it felt almost feminine …
True. It happens —
Paradoxically, it’s the most completely masculine experience.
As a result, I’m now much more dialed-in to fulfilling my wife’s sexual needs & desires.
Can you give more details about the condom method? Ive never tried it but after reading, it made me very curious.
Do you put the whole toy inside a condom with lube? Wont the tabs kinda get in the way? Or do you tie at the stem?
Amazing. I’m experiencing most of what you describe just can’t get to the hands free orgasm. I’ve got a large collection of toys, some pretty big but I feel the most pleasure from the smaller toys such as the Aneros Helix Syn or the Aneros Peridise sticks. I’ve always used those two as my warm up toys and follow that up with my lube shooter, which I discovered, my body reacts very nice to. Inspired by your post, the last two sessions I’ve had, I’ve stuck with the smaller toys. I have a vibrating egg that I use with amazing results too. I spent the last 40 minutes last night with the egg vibrating inside me and fucking myself with the lube shooter, alternately slowly and faster and then with no motion, just having the egg deep inside and the lube shooter also deep inside. I had at least ten hard throbbing POs, one of them launching a spurt of precum onto my leg. They felt great but no wet HFO. Even though I had to finish myself off, the wet orgasm was pretty incredible. Thanks for the inspiration
How did the she convince you to let her put her finger there?
What ended your relationship with her
awesome! i had one a few days ago and then i ordered the aneros Progasm and the thing hit the spot the minute i inserted it. holy shit… that thing really works!
Felt obliged to respond on seeing this. I feel like you’ve articulated a lot of my personal experiences with my aneros. I’ve thought previously ‘this is what it must feel like for a woman’ in some of my wilder experiences where I’ve been in that rolling, tingling feedback loop phase. It’s such a bizarre out of body experience at times. Will definitely try the condom tip. Why do you lube it up inside the condom?