I had sex with my wife for the first time with the aneros inserted. I didn’t tell her Bc I don’t know how she would react.
The sex was great. It allowed me to last longer, I don’t know how that happened. I had able to fuck her hard and fast and concentrate on squeezing my ass in between trusts in her.
Any advice on using the eneros for sex with a woman?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/k0drs6/sex_with_aneros/
I feel like I’m asking this all the time but which toy did you use? (As a gay man) I tend to cum really quickly when I’m on top and I had the same problem to only time I had piv with a friend of mine. That could definitely help me lasting longer the rare time I’m top but I feel like the Progasm would be too much a distraction compared to the Helix.
I also lasted longer when I used the Helix. It gave me a lot of control because I was paying attention to how much tension I had in my pelvic area.
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On subject of not telling your wife? It is always hard to include things to your sex life if you’re already hiding them. It would be great if you were able to communicate you like having stuff up your butt.
That’s weird. Whenever I’ve tried having sex or masturbating with the Aneros in, I cum much more quickly.
I’ve recently done the same although I told her first. I didn’t have the same experience. But it was a brand new sensation for me. I normally have control over when I cum but I struggled with both it was like sensory overload. I’m starting to get more comfortable with it and think it’ll enhance our sex life like all the other toys we bring in on occasion.
You might consider using the Peridise on yourself when having sex. I have done that several times. It adds to my pleasure and makes for a stronger orgasm. I can’t say that is necessarily shortened or lengthen the time before orgasm but it felt good. Not mind blowing never experienced good but very good.