Question for those who are able to cum from anal / prostate stimulation alone…
I’ve heard that one of the keys to being able to do it is that you have to not cum for several days. Up until now, I’ve never abstained from cumming for more than a day or two (at most).
So far, I haven’t cum in 9 days and am really looking forward to my next session. My goal is to ONLY cum from anal / prostate stimulation from now on.
As far as the aneros goes, I’ve read some comments saying to just “relax” and other posts saying to do kegel contractions. I’ve tried both as well as various techniques with my other toys.
I have an njoy pure wand as well as a dildo, butt plugs and a few of the aneros models. Etc.
Looking for any advice that could help me finally achieve this goal.
Thanks!
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/kokdvo/advice/
I have also seen plenty of people say it’s best if you haven’t cum in several days. That can definitely be true, but personally I can still have prostate orgasms no matter when. Even if I came yesterday, or earlier that day, or even right after having a wet orgasm. And with or without using a toy.
You might be careful what you wish for though. Remember prostate stimulation is in a whole other realm compared to penile stimulation. So just because you haven’t cum in several days doesn’t mean you’re guaranteed to have prostate orgasms. If your level of arousal creeps into the “penile realm” then you could simply have a wet orgasm and be done. You have to control the arousal, it’s very important.
While using an Aneros toy, I have found a combination of “relax” and kegel contractions can work. The toy is in doing its job, so relaxing and focusing on the subtle feelings can definitely work and eventually bring waves of pleasure. On the other hand, combining muscle exercises while the toy is in can elevate the pleasure to a new level.
What usually works best for me is trying to maintain a continuous level of flexing my muscles, but not 100%. Somewhere around 50% effort. If you can ride that line, eventually the muscles will get tired and start to flutter and contract involuntarily and that’s really where the incredible sensations start to form and turn into huge waves. It takes some time to train so you don’t tire out, but it’s well worth it.
I have not had much success with vibrators or dildos. I think the toys that work best are the ones that you put in and let them do their job. Aneros, plugs, etc. The metal wand toys seem to be good also but I don’t have one.