Hi, i have been wondering for a long time if i should get a prostate massager and well today i pulled the trigger. I ordered a Helix Syn Trident and i have no idea what to expect and i have a general idea of what to do but do you guys have any advice for a first timer? Btw first time having anything close to the back door.
4 comments
Comments are closed.
There is plenty of information in the wiki and on the aneros forums. You should try the reading thing 😉
The best advice is this: be patient.
Expect to start a long journey with a lot of pleasure. But, as others are saying, be patient, read all that you can and be patient. Have I say to be patient?
don’t be disappointed by the first two or three sessions.
And the most important things: be relaxed and let your body do the work. Don’t force things and surrender yourself.
Oh! Also be patient!
1. Get yourself nice and worked up first. You prostate won’t feel good right away, it needs to s’well up. Go ahead and watch some porn for a bit. You can even edge if you have the self control. You can do this with the aneros (or butt plug) in, just don’t worry about your prostate feeling good.
2. Exercise your PC muscles. Try for at least 5 min day, 5 days a week, for 2-4 weeks. You’ll need them for the next step.
3. Once your prostate is warmed up, begin by contacting both your PC and sphincter muscles. Try to slowly release your PC muscles while keeping your sphincter constant. There will be a sweet spot that should cause the toy to flutter and feel fairly good. It won’t be intense, but it should be noticeable. Your goal is to practice getting to this sweet spot so that it becomes second nature similar to practicing any other technique (proper stance for sports, shooting a gun, etc.) If you like a guide, look at mindgasm.net
4. If you are still having difficulty identifying the property sensation, get yourself one of those massaging guns. Hold it to either a tab or the middle base of the aneros while inserted (I put a towel between the massager and the toy.) Practice finding the sweet spot while using the massager. I promise you’ll feel the sweet spot this way.