Major progress and first taste of prostate orgasm

I’ve been practicing prostate play on and off for about 9 months now and last night I had a breakthrough session. I’m gonna give a shout out to everyone who helped me get this far too.

Usually I edge first for quite a while before I put my toy in, but I feel like that was maybe a crutch to help me identify the pleasure in the start and now I can have a session without it. I had this breakthrough without edging, so I think that’s probably important.

So as strange as it may sound, recently I noticed the feeling of what I call a ‘prostate boner’ haha. When I allow my body to clench lightly, it can feel like my prostate is getting hard for a few seconds, like a little wave of pleasure. I’ve usually either been relaxing entirely after that occurs, or tensing too hard and killing it. I followed my body and allowed myself to tense lightly if it wanted to. Then I would relax a little and then follow my body again to clench lightly.

Often this ‘prostate boner’ (or another pleasure wave in the past, I used to get a more general feeling of pleasure in the pelvis) would cause my heart to suddenly beat really hard and fast and this would be so intense that it would scare me and cause everything to end. This has been coined as ‘terror at the gates’.

When this feeling set off my heart beat this time, I stayed relaxed and allowed my body to keep setting off the ‘prostate boner’ which not only kept my heart rate very high, it got even faster and was beating harder. My prostate started to feel the best it ever had at this point and I started getting involuntaries. My heart rate stayed high like that for like 2 straight minutes and it was so intense. The fact it was accompanied by much more pleasure to has all the hallmarks of a climax. The fact it’s so different to cumming from your cock means it’s hard to define, but my heart thumping in my chest intensely alongside a sudden peak in the pleasure definitely feels like a climax to me. The intensity of the experience was brand new to me, a definite milestone on the journey.

When I started to get the involuntaries I worried a little about clenching too hard and that started to being the whole thing down. I suppose it’ll be figuring out where to go from there next.

I think I basically just about tipped into the realm of the prostate orgasm and there is loads more to come yet. I’m very happy to have gotten to this point and shoutouts to those who’ve really taken their time to talk to me and guide me:

I’ve had a lot of advice, mainly from Unfug who’s really guided me past a lot of milestones, buttmunky has also helped me a lot and is a great guy, and reddoubler gave me some words of wisdom as well. I’ve been chatting with noworriesboy and he seems to experience this all very similarly to me, so it was his advice to follow my body when those feelings arised that allowed me to make this breakthrough.

Thanks guys, we have a great community here, amazing really 😄