Hi everyone, been practicing for a year with some very nice pleasure and a few nearly moments. I use a eupho syn which is really small and comfortable, the light pressure does a good job at building up the sensitivity. That said, I’d be interested in getting the new vibrating model. I don’t know if that may help me progress more, I’m unsure and I’d be dropping some extra money on it to get that model. Anyone have any thoughts on the matter?
Author: Benja3001
I’m 10 months in with some very nice pleasure and interesting, new sensations, but no pgasms yet – would really appreciate advice.
Hello everybody!
As the title says, I’ve been at this for almost a year. During that time I’ve learnt that my body is capable of a decent bit more than I ever expected and that is amazing, but I’m wondering where I go from here.
My sessions go like this – I try to get aroused, but I don’t touch my penis beforehand, I use a lube applicator about three times, then use plenty of lube on my toy (eupho syn trident).
I essentially try to follow the do nothing method – conscious clenching doesn’t seem to do much for me. My muscles down there are quite twitchy in response to arousal or even just the presence of the toy, so that usually kicks things off. I try to follow those contractions, I used to let my muscles clamp down, but I realised that was a mistake and killed the sensitivity. So I allow the clench then back off on clamping down, this results in a light teasing of my prostate – building the sensitivity up. It can really feel nice after an hour or more of this. I don’t know if this sounds like I’m interfering with the process, but I feel like I’m actually encouraging a more passive approach ironically, stopping my body trying to clamp down. It definitely feels better to do this, so I feel a bit like following _exactly_ what my body ‘wants’ isn’t necessarily the answer for me.
Major progress and first taste of prostate orgasm
I’ve been practicing prostate play on and off for about 9 months now and last night I had a breakthrough session. I’m gonna give a shout out to everyone who helped me get this far too.
Usually I edge first for quite a while before I put my toy in, but I feel like that was maybe a crutch to help me identify the pleasure in the start and now I can have a session without it. I had this breakthrough without edging, so I think that’s probably important.
So as strange as it may sound, recently I noticed the feeling of what I call a ‘prostate boner’ haha. When I allow my body to clench lightly, it can feel like my prostate is getting hard for a few seconds, like a little wave of pleasure. I’ve usually either been relaxing entirely after that occurs, or tensing too hard and killing it. I followed my body and allowed myself to tense lightly if it wanted to. Then I would relax a little and then follow my body again to clench lightly.
Often this ‘prostate boner’ (or another pleasure wave in the past, I used to get a more general feeling of pleasure in the pelvis) would cause my heart to suddenly beat really hard and fast and this would be so intense that it would scare me and cause everything to end. This has been coined as ‘terror at the gates’.
Progress update and questions. Lightly caressing my balls felt amazing, could that lead to orgasm?
I’ve been using aneros toys for about 7 months now but not that many sessions, somewhere around 15 sessions now.
I used a helix classic at first but it was too much pressure. So I got a eupho syn due to its size and I’ve made a lot of progress – some great feelings of pleasure, sometimes feeling like I’m right on the edge of a really big orgasm that just doesn’t cum. I’ve even felt intoxicated and then had much improved traditional orgasms after I take the toy out at the end of a session.
A minority of times too, I start to get feelings across my body. They can be subtle at times but I definitely feel them, these can sometimes lead to what feels like a sudden, whole body build up. It’s very intense and feels quite frightening, when it happens, it actually snaps me out of it and it feels like whatever was going to happen, doesn’t.
I got an MGX syn to switch things up a little and the extra pressure definitely gave the session a different flavour last night. I’ve recently started to feel sensations in my abs that sometimes feels like my prostate ‘tensing’ up, as if it’s hard like my cock almost. Last night it was like that feeling spread further, like I had butterflies in my abs.
I also got that crazy buildup feeling that was pretty scary! Still not quite sure what to make of it.
Tenth session and I feel so close! Advice?
Hey guys, I’m looking for some advice to hit that next level.
I’m at the point now where I can get involuntaries of the muscles that move the toy, but they don’t dominate the session, just appear now and then. I’m also consistently getting some very nice pleasure in my session at times.
The session kind of goes like this (I’ll try to make this not sound like fap material 😆) – I watch porn with my toy in and I’ll generally contract the muscles, it’s kind of voluntary, kind of not, I just follow what my body does and sometimes that can set off the true involuntaries. The pleasure that I get kind of comes in ‘waves’, by which I mean that after the toy has stimulated my prostate sufficiently, it begins to feel very nice. Usually at this point my dick gets hard and it’s like my body is trying to cum and I’m at the edge, then it dials back. It can feel very, very nice. The pleasure subsides for a little while, then another wave will come and often it can be stronger. Are these what pleasure waves are?
The toy brushing against my prostate begins to feel amazing and as the pleasure builds and it lifts off my prostate, that’s where the respite comes to feel that wave of pleasure.
My body ‘trying’ to cum
Hi everyone! So I’ve been experimenting with my aneros toys since late summer but I’ve only managed to have about 9 sessions. I had my last couple of sessions around new year and realised that if I edged before putting the toy in, then went hands free after insertion, that really kick started the pleasure.
I haven’t had any orgasms yet but it can feel really nice and I think I’ve made some good progress, where I can even feel subtle sensations across other parts of my body… nothing major but something different for sure.
Unfortunately I didn’t have a chance to use my toys for over two months until last night. I found my progress had reversed a little, but not much. And I eventually reached a few ‘windows’ of pleasure. It’s like the pleasure comes in waves (not waves over my body though), just that it’s sporadic and seems to build.
At the height of one of these waves last night the pleasure really was very nice. But it’s like my body is about to erupt into something more and it can’t do that. Even my abs started flexing and it’s like my body is about to have some big orgasm that doesn’t quite come. I’m quite certain each of these waves is when there’s precum slowly making it’s way out of me too.