Well. My journey w aneros has been…say…uneventful. Has anyone switched to njoy and experienced p waves and super o’s? It’s quite expensive so want to get this groups reaction or maybe it’s just me. I’m just not wired for this
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I tried Aneros for several years with no jump in improvement, but after I learned some stuff in med school, I tried the Njoy Pure Wand and after about a year, I got there.
It honestly just takes time to sensitize the glands and nerves in the area until tactile stimulation works, so if you can get an adjustable thing like the Njoy wands, it’d probably get you there faster.
For the record, I still can’t get a super O from any Aneros, and I’ve been hoping they’d make an adjustable model since everyone’s angles are different. I found one of those rotating ones that works for me, but others with shallower angles say it hurts for them.
The nJoy Pure Wand is easy to manipulate compared to an aneros. I absolutely love it more than any silicone dildo. The stainless steel doesn’t need constant lube and the shape of the neck keeps it from sticking when you start clenching. I would say the only drawback compared to an aneros is that you need to moving it whereas your body eventually moves the aneros on its own and you can just sit back and relax (although I read someone’s post that they set themselves up so the handle of the wand can rest on something for hands free play.)
My suggestion though would be to try the following first. These tips even apply to when I use my nJoy wand.
1.) Exercise your PC muscles daily for 2 weeks. You only need to do 5 minutes every day. Even though you don’t use your PC muscles to move the nJoy wand, you’ll still use them to squeeze it to help it hit your prostate.
2.) Get yourself nice and aroused before any prostate play. I actually edge a few times contrary to popular belief there. I have the willpower not to touch myself during prostate play though. Your prostate swells up when aroused making it easier to find and much more sensitive. If unaroused, it just feels like a weird pressure.
3a.) With an aneros toy, squeeze both your PC and sphincter muscles about 80%. Slowly release your PC muscles while maintaining your sphincter muscles. You should eventually feel the aneros flutter. When you do, maintain those pressures while relaxing the rest of your body.
Your body should involuntary contract and your goal is to relax as much as possible without forcing those muscles to relax. Let your body spasm, but don’t force anything. Eventually, you’ll tense up so much that you might completely relax. If that happens, just repeat the steps. Learn to enjoy the cycle of relaxing and tensing over and over.
Your primary goal is to learn your “sweet spot” tension of your PC and sphincter muscles so that you can restart each cycle quicker. Your secondary goal is to try and avoid completely relaxing for as long as possible; you should be reaching more and more tense states each cycle. If you ever feel a pressure in the tip of your penis, avoid tensing any muscle to try and force an orgasm. Recognize the feeling, but keep trying to relax.
mindgasm.net is a great resource that goes injury detail about using your PC and sphincter muscles.
3b.) If using the nJoy wand, locate your prostate, and just rock the toy back and forth at a moderate pace. Try varying the movements and different amounts of squeezing with your PC and sphincter muscles. Once you find your “sweet spot,” it’s the same as 3a, but with the wand. You don’t need much movement which is why I say rocking instead of thrusting.
If your not familiar with finding your prostate, I recommend this [toy](https://www.amazon.com/dp/B089LXC3H4/ref=cm_sw_r_apan_glt_fabc_90EQ22N721EE9GZHM1GW?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1). Still get yourself aroused first, stick this in, and sit in an upright position. This toy does not stay in very well since the neck is the same diameter throughout, but that wiggle motion will easily hit your prostate while sitting on it.
Yes. I had very little luck with Aneros and other prostate specific toys. The njoy Pure Wand was a total game changer once I learned what worked for my body. The wand is easy to clean, needs less lube, and is built to last. I have become so good with it that I can have hfdo in under an hour and I have had a couple of squirting hfwo as well. Can’t recommend enough. Well worth the expense just take your time with it and be gentle until you are used to it!