So i decided to try a different toy for a session. Its an inflatable butt plug from amazon. Inserted it and waited a good 10 minutes. Didnt watch porn or smoke.
Did some kegels and rested periodically. Had the toy pumped up 2 times. Deflated it until it was comfy. Did some more kegels. Then it got interesting.
Instead of feeling the tiring sensation of kegeling. It felt really pleasurable. Lasted about 5 seconds then i dropped my base contraction to try and ride it. Sensation went away and couldnt reproduce the same effect the rest of the night.
Ive been on this journey for over 3 years with the aneros (multiple toys) and various other toys. Nothing quite like that happened before.
Anyone know what to do from here?
About to try another session here soon.
When you find a pleasurable getting, try to maintain that force of squeeze while relaxing the rest of your body (torso, arms, legs, etc.) See if your body starts to involuntarily starts to spasm. If so, just keep holding. If not, try increasing or releasing the pressure just a bit until you feel some twitching. Keep practicing until you are reproduce the sensation reliably. Then just keep trying different things like positions, strength of contraction, etc.
Doing kegals is a tiring way and I find doesn’t achieve much.
Think the do nothing method is far superior or else hold a contraction at like 20% and try keep it there. Slowly release as you tense harder. I imagine during a wave and staying balanced at 20%