I’m going off the toys again

Well, that’s not exactly truth. I’ve found out that the best toy for me is a finger. For those interested I’ll give more specfics at the end but let me give you context, which is more important. In a series of events I’ve been trying intermittent stimulation. I’ve confirmed to myself, that sphincter is very important and I’ve used the tips of bigger toys to do it. It was no longer handsfree, introduced hassles, silicon lubricant, in short – it required a lot of attention and activity and grew tiresome. The strategy was somewhat successful though. I was reluctant to get into the practice of using my bare hand because it never seemed perfectly hygienic but I restricted myself to external stimulation and found out that it’s good enough and felt almost hygienic. I’ve found the perfect toy and it’s not just because it’s more convenient, I think the sheer amount of nerve endings that are engaged is important. This can explain some other things that coupled with arousal would trigger waves in me – the actual principle that can be reused for new approaches and as a guide towards success. Now for the actual practice, I’ve come to appreciate putting my hand on buttocks with middle finger right in the crack but the most important thing is to use tip of finger touching and lightly pressing. Not fast, not hard and making shorter or longer breaks to relax, I feel the pauses are important too. I don’t have any set strategy yet, there are so many possible variants. Easy to change positions, some feel better than others. As opposed to toys there’s huge amount of variability and precision – where and how and how long you touch, and you can feel it on both ends. It’s been very effective.