It’s easy to get ahead of the sensations and fantasize about what the waves of pleasure COULD be like, but this attitude almost always shifts me out of the current pleasures and grinds them to a halt.
Seems like fantasy builds tension which kills relaxation…and the Super O.
How do you stay grounded in the now and avoid being too focused on reaching the Super O?
Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/tuqawg/staying_in_the_now_avoiding_fantasy/
Thinking ahead about the pleasure is my biggest weakness… I experienced a super-o almost three weeks ago and it’s hard not to desire that again when pleasure is building
It’s a constant struggle, even when you know you shouldn’t think that way, sometimes you can’t help it. It does get easier with practice, and I suspect may be easier for some than others. Just keep at it and keep practicing .