Every session I have ends in orgasmic release, but I’m not sure it’s a prostate orgasm? I focus, relax, and with build up comes a HFWO. My helix syn trident always hits that little button enough for me to get a wet orgasm. I don’t believe I’ve ever had a dry orgasm, without ejaculation. It feels wonderful but I wouldn’t say it’s “rolling pleasure” or constant orgasms like some have offered in this sub. Any recommendations or am I thinking about the prostate orgasm wrong?
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Being really vague maybe. HWFO feels to me just like a normal ejaculation, just that it was caused by different stimulation. A p-gasm is a completely different feeling from a HFWO. It originates more “inward” and/or “upward”. To me, my cock isn’t the central point of the orgasm, though it’s certainly related. Instead, the prostate is vaguely the center and cause of the orgasm.
You’re right, prostate orgasms don’t usually cause ejaculation.
My advice would be to just leave the toy in place after your wet O and continue to play.
Try to see if there are still good feelings, those are prostate feelings. Focus on them without worrying about cumming. Try to learn what they feel like.
Next time you play focus on those same feelings. If you ejaculate, don’t worry. It’s not the end of a prostate session. Just keep going if you can and see where you end up.
I’ve had the same thing happen to me, wet orgasms during a prostate session, and I just kept playing and continue to have dry orgasms after that.
Don’t worry about it! Just keep enjoying and you’ll learn and learn and learn…
I kinda wonder…if folks who have a HIH 950 tend to have more HFDO than HFWOs. It is more compact in length than all other Aneros. I really need to spend more time using mine. I habitually have way more Wets than Drys. I kinda thought it had more to do with a lack of current ability to relax enough. Then recently, I have read more and more observations, being PMs are maybe longer than actually need for massaging the prostate and designed to kinda stimulate all the bells and whistles in the anus. And then there are some reports of maybe…folks inserting massagers deeper than necessary. In my personal experience, I have had some great sensations when massagers are at the tipping point of being sucked all the way in and spit out of the rectum. If I can balance it just right…it feels freaking amazing, but typically, it gets ejected or sucked in without a little something, keeping it in place. I am definitely looking for solutions that are Temporary to kinda restrict the depth of the massagers without affecting the weight of massagers.
This is/was me as well but you will have to learn how to relax even more as the pleasure intensifies. Maybe even if that means you diminish the pleasure a bit so that you don’t go past the point of no return. It will take time to learn how you mind/body works and what that tipping point it.
I don’t know what your sessions are like but for me I would always get the HFWO if my body shaking got a bit out of hand. It felt so good though so I didn’t resist but I had to learn to try to minimize it and mentally just focus on the pleasure in my pelvic region. Once I figured that out the shaking mostly stopped but the pleasure grows to the rest of my body. I also had to go lighter on the nipple play, taking breaks here and there during my sessions. If it was non-stop it would build up too much pleasure (sounds terrible doesn’t it :)).
After many years of practice, I still get HFWO sometimes when I allow it to happen but can also just have waves of orgasmic pleasure for as long as I have the energy to keep going. I usually run out after about 60 minutes.