I had it… but I lost it?

A couple months ago I managed to get to the super o and it was everything as promised: shaking, endless waves of pleasure, screaming into pillow etc. I thought my life was permanently changed.

Then there was maybe two or three weeks where I didn’t do it, and I noticed this week that I hadnt been getting the tingle in my prostate that had become the signal for me that it was time to play.

The last couple nights I’ve given myself lots of time but for whatever reason I havent been able to arrive at the super O. I don’t know if it’s because I’ve become impatient or maybe not as tune with the muscles as I was when I got the super O the first few times…

Has this ever happened to anyone? Any advice on how to restore this?

Benefits after the super o?

This past week I was finally able to get to the super o and like everyone has said, it was totally mind blowing and really has opened my mind as to what an orgasm can be. Just this afternoon I lost count on how many orgasms I had. At one point I was literally screaming into my pillow, it was so intense.

Now in the evening I’m feeling good, a little fuzzy, very content. I keep sighing in satisfaction… but I have a lot of questions for vets of this.

I’m wondering what people who have been doing this for a while have noticed. Do you find that you’re a better, more attentive lover? I’m straight and now that I’ve experienced this I think I understand better what a woman’s orgasm is like and I can’t wait to be with a woman again and see if I have a new mindfulness when we’re having sex.
Do people find that after crossing over they’re more sexual/have a higher libido?

I’ve also heard stories about people becoming more mindful and sensitive in general. Any stories about that?

I’m considering making this the only way that I cum. I’ve always been curious about semen retention and this seems like a good way to satisfy my sexual urges without losing semen. Has anyone done this?

Really, I’m just very curious about this new aspect of my life. Obviously I love the super o’s themselves but I want to know how it’s going to affect the rest of my life. Thanks!