Hello all, I just have a few questions I hope some of you can answer.
1. Is the aneros supposed to slide/glide in and out of the anus, or move up and down with the contractions? I personally feel like the aneros is stuck in place and that it is the muscles and prostate that is rubbing against the toy rather than the toy rubbing against the prostate, if that makes sense. Am I using to little lube? Or subconsciously clenching my muscles? I try to stay as relaxed as possible down there, but i tend to tense up, especially when then penis gets hard.
2. Is the prostate supposed to swell and stay swelled throughout the session? Or will it just swell while climaxing/getting close to orgasm? When things starts to feel good I can feel the prostate swelling (and my penis will also get rock hard) but I dont really now if this is an orgasm or I am just getting close. But honestly it feels more frustrating than pleasureable because it feels like im getting close to something but I dont know what, and i dont know how to push myself over the edge or if Im already there.
Thank you for reading my post and feel free to leave your thoughts.