I’ve been on the anal exploration wagon for a long time, but have been more seriously on the prostate pleasure path for 14 months now thanks to lots of different changing circumstances. I’m 34.
A couple of days ago I had a breakthrough moment.
My girl went to the office for the first time in months leaving me for a whole day of me time. I think I used it wisely: I spent the early morning with a coffee and a spliff of c13 haze.
I then made sure i had no distractions or interruptions, post morning bowel movement, for a few hours.
I prepped my bedroom with extra cushions, towels, lube, Noise cancelling headphones, near total darkness and mindgasm. I also hadn’t had sex or touched myself for 3 days.
On my back with knees bent and a cushion under my back/arse, I had the aneros progasm in for about 30 minutes before I focussed my thoughts on it. And then I registered it was there but did nothing and got some very pleasurable sensations after another 20 minutes or so, then it all disappeared. That’s kind of where I’ve been with the aneros for a year. So I took the aneros out, smoked a little more weed and poked around gently with my njoy wand. I found a very pleasurable position but felt like I was forcing it so I went back to the aneros and did some very gentle contractions on my side for about 10 minutes and all of a sudden I was rock hard, starting to feel some very rhythmic involuntary contractions, then I had an amazing dry orgasm.