When my wife went to visit family, I finally had an opportunity to dedicate some time without limitations. Because of my recent non-events, I acquired a Helix Classic and a VICE in the hopes I could finally achieve a p-orgasm.
I have concluded that the neuropathy that I have in my feet from my chemo twenty years ago also affects my anal area. Because no matter what device I used, no matter how I relaxed, no matter how frequent or infrequent I tried contractions, no matter what setting I used with the VICE, all I got was great edging.
I have been careful to not get my penis involved. I tried early in the evening, at bed time, in the middle of the night, and in the morning. I plan to persevere, but it is rather disheartening.
After a little down time, my next effort will likely include the enhancement of marijuana. I am hopeful that it will push me over the edge.
Advice appreciated.
Author: blazingjoyride
The Road to Enlightenment Is Not Always Paved, Even, or Straight
After my excellent Peridise experience at work, I was hoping for some advancement with my Progasm. But I had a pretty uneventful bedtime session )2+ hours( following steps that had been fairly successful previously. The next night, I opted for the Peridise and experienced another unrewarding session. I was going to lay off for awhile, but I couldn't resist trying another work session with the Peridise and had only limited response from my body. Disappointed to say the least! But that night, following my workout, I inserted my Progasm at bedtime, fell off to sleep, and was awakened with an erection great p-waves. The intensity ebbed and flowed for at least an hour with the best sensations I can recall.
I took my Peridise on a my weekend trip and inserted it on Saturday night with no meaningful results. Upon arriving home from my trip, I followed the same steps that have been successful with my Progasm two nights prior. Some ok sensations, but nothing memorable in what would have to be classified as another step backward.
Oh well, Rome wasn't built in a day, and clearly neither is my rewiring and enlightenment.
Thanks to Linghaman I Found Peridise
I took Linghaman's advise and ordered a Peridise. I arrived at work this morning )plain box(. I made a quick visit to the men's room, lubricated the Peridise, and went back to work )desk jockey(. Although it took a few hours, the waves started happening without any effort on my part. The last two hours of work have been terrific. Luckily I have a office because there have been periods where moaning was has been required. More later…
Disappointment followed by Euphoria at the Tony Awards
2 days since previous session: After attending a play )One Man Two Guvnors( Saturday night and a relaxing shower, I was ready for further progress toward significant stimulation. I went to bed with the Progasm inserted; relaxed; tried several positions; then contractions. All this resulted in only minor responses. I fell off to sleep several times and tired again each time I woke up. But finally, with substantial disappointment, gave up after waking up 3 hours from the start.
I thought about the Progasm regularly all day Sunday and was going to wait until Monday evening to give it another try. But after a work out, I thought maybe a two day layoff isn't the answer. Was I ever right!
After my workout, no shower )TMI?(, I just inserted the Progasm and laid down on my side on the couch not far from my wife to watch the Tony Awards, and enjoyed two plus hours of bliss that I did not want to end. The Tony Awards have never been so wonderful! I even watched the local news afterwards just so I wouldn't have to stop.
After just relaxing and I was rewarded with some nice sensations. I did just a few contractions before things got going on their own. For nearly two hours I enjoyed wave after wave of prostate/anal rushes that periodically caused shocks that made my leg or back jump. I spent much of that time just mentally saying "OMG, don't let this stop" and hoping that I didn't verbalize this thought or start moaning. )My wife was unaware that I had inserted the Progasm before laying down to watch the show. My wife knows of the Progasm and has somewhat begrudgingly accepted that if she has a vibrator, why shouldn't I have something. But we are in our sixties and sexual communication has never been one of our strengths. Me being receptive to all kinds of fetiches and her being of strict Catholic upbringing(.
So after the news, I reluctantly removed the Progasm, showered, and went to sleep. I woke up three hours later with an erection )first in a very long time( and lots of wonderful prostate/anal sensations! I enjoyed the waves of sensations and occasionally encouraged more with a contraction now and then. After a substantial period of time, I fell asleep and woke up 20 minutes before my alarm to more sensations. What a great evening. I'm not sure that any of this qualifies as an orgasm, but whatever it is, sign me up for more, more, more.
Still enjoying the "afterglow" at work right now.
I can't wait until I can embrace my Progasm again.
Beginner Prefers Progasm to the Progasm Jr.
I purchased a Progasm Jr. a couple of weeks ago. I based that purchase off of comments on the forum and reviews of the products. After three sessions of nothing, I was disappointed but undaunted. It seemed as though the Jr. was providing very limited stimulation to my prostate. I had tried the passive relaxed method along with multiple positions and contractions, but hardly felt any sensations. I decided that because I am 6' 2" that perhaps I needed more length and girth (I'm slim, but the Jr. was so easy to insert and didn't seem to result in any particularly full feeling).
So I ordered the larger Progasm and was rewarded with much improved results. After a shower, I had no trouble inserting the Progasm. It provided a much fuller feeling and the urge to urinate that I had not experienced with the Jr.
I used the relaxed right side approach and after a period of breathing I moved to some contractions. It took awhile but after 30-45 minutes I was rewarded with some very pleasant sensations that intensified with additional relaxation and contraction cycles.
I did not experience an orgasm, but I had an excellent session with the promise of an orgasm on the horizon. And in any case, the sensations were some of the best I've felt in who knows how long.
I think I disagree with the concept that the Progasm is for experienced users. With the right lubrication it was easy for this beginner to insert and provided better feedback than the Jr.
I'd advise beginners not to shy away from the larger Progasm from fear of its size. Size may be just what the beginner needs. I'll probably give the Jr. another try after I have really mastered the Progasm. But for right now I am going to be concentrating as much of my time as possible on the Progasm.