I’ve had about nine months with my unit, and while I have definitely improved my orgasm both with and without it in, I haven’t had the mind-blowing multiples that some people descibe. I am thinking it is my process.
I make sure to time this when I haven’t eaten for a bit and have had a good solid bowel movement.
I start off by watching some porn or paging through some NSFW reddits. I focus on content that features a man experiencing what I am about to experience, except at the hands of a woman. I will usually stroke myself with coconut oil as lubricant, but try to focus more on touching my nipples and perineum. The stroking is mostly just to maintain an erection and arousal. Should I be attempting to maintain an erection throughout?
After about ten minutes of that, I will start preparing myself for insertion. On goes the coconut oil and in it goes. I insert the device all the way, until the red tab makes contact with my perineum and the white my tailbone. I have tried inserting a shorter distance, but there has not been as much sensation- am I doing this wrong? I will usually lay on the bed, sometimes on my back and other times on my stomach, focusing on moving my pelvic floor. The sensation is nice, but not as intense as when I can hit my spot with my thumb.