My favourite TG Aneros video and my first HFWO

[Here you go](https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5ddd488d497a8); you’ll know whether TG videos appeal to you or not. The angle is brilliant; you can really see what she’s doing with her body, and I’d love to see more Aneros videos like that.

I am very happy to say that I had my first honest-to-goodness HFWO with my old-school combination of an MGX and KY jelly (or, as I suppose we should now call it, Kynect). [This timeline](http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Aneros_History) helps me believe that it was probably 2004-5 when I got my first Aneros, an MGX at a point when I didn’t think there was more than one model; I’ve recently enjoyed returning to it after a long run with a Helix and a few tries with a Progasm. I really like the rocking technique used in the video; while I’ve got some movement of the Aneros from just my internal muscles, and enough to generate P-waves when I’m lucky, the degree of rocking here caused enough motion and massage to actually get me over the edge, and I really enjoyed both rocking and moaning along to the video and feeling like I was experiencing the same things at the same time as she was. There was a couple of weeks’ worth inside my nuts, and I felt a lot flow down the inside of my leg; not the rumoured immense squirty quantities of prostate fluid, but more than a usual load.

What’s with tucking your cock and balls between your legs?

I do enjoy watching videos of people using Aneros, particularly to the point of HFWO, and several seem to like tucking their cock (quite often with erections) and balls between their legs. I’ve tried this myself and find it feels quite painful, or at the very least, sufficently distracting to the point where I can’t concentrate on sexier matters or on enjoying the ride. Tips in this regard to help this sensation be part of the fun, rather than very off-putting, would be very welcome and quite possibly sexy AF.

Some Aneros porn I’d like to see

I’d like to see two men, each with their own prostate massager inserted, each lying on their right side in approximate 69 position. Both would be paying close attention to each other enjoying the sensations, knowing exactly what the other is feeling. Perhaps they might be playing with each other’s nipples or other erogenous zones. While I’m playing fantasy porn director, I’d like to see them both cum over each other just from the sensations of the massagers. Does such a video already freely exist and I’ve just been looking in the wrong places?

I’d also watch a video of a man playing with an Aneros in position while a woman plays with her own sex toys, I’m not greedy. (Oh wait, yes I am!)

Very very slow progress sure beats no progress

If you’re not having progress with your Aneros, so long as it isn’t hurting, do keep giving it a go from time to time. There’s a comment in the sidebar that “some guys have spent years getting there”; take that literally.

I suspect I got my Aneros back in 2005, give or take a year. I bought it at the point believing there was only one model and was surprised to receive one called a MGX – this might help people be able to place it in time. It probably took me several years and a lot of effort and exaggerated clenching to get any sort of reaction, and for the longest time I would try the “lots of deep breathing, fifteen full clenches then hold it quarter-way” routine. I might get one pleasant sensation, though not always, then that would be it in terms of anything pleasurable for the session. I would keep trying and trying and get nothing further. There were two occasions, years apart, where I clenched so much that for several (5? 7?) days afterwards I felt like I had bruised myself internally and felt like I was buzzing inside, in a not-at-all pleasant way, to the point where sitting down was uncomfortable. Ever since then I’ve taken it more easily.

Additional external prostate stimulation while using an Aneros?

I've been occasionally using an Aneros for approaching ten years and enjoyed it despite getting little more than a few P-waves. It's very likely that it's the mental side of things that's holding me back; I'm anxious and controlling at the best of times and on an anti-anxiety SSRI. It's likely that I would probably have much more joy if I could relax while using it, but I haven't found a way to do so yet. (Solutions involving trees, even if they were legal in my jurisdiction, hold no interest for me – and perhaps it's hypocritical for me to be OK with taking Citalopram when I'm not prepared to consider anything more herbal, but that's an argument for another time and another subreddit.)

In a session today, when reasonably aroused and making the usual deliberate contractions to move the Aneros, I found I was able to trigger some light involuntary contractions by applying a vibrator to my stomach at the base of the penis (i.e. very close to the shaft of the penis, but not actually touching it), presumably giving the prostate additional stimulation through the bladder. Sometimes I've used traditional penile masturbation techniques to reach the point of no return, then stopped and applied indirect pressure to my prostate that way to get me over the edge; it's probably as close to the hands-free orgasm that I so crave as I'm going to get.