Like many people here, I’ve been struggling to hit the elusive hfo for about a year. Here is some info:
1. I use the helix syn trident mostly, but I also have the pure wand and a dildo (both of which don’t do too much). Im trying to use what I have instead of buying more toys. Budget conscious to a point
2. I’ve read multiple posts and the faq over and over as well as other research on other subreddits and forums
3. I’m not rushing the process, but trying to enjoy it (which I do)
4. I give at least a week between sessions with no release between
5. I do enjoy the process, but would like to take it to the next step
6. I must admit many times I finish a session “manually” because I feel like I need a release to end
7. I know many people here get hfo within days, others after years
8. Poppers and other similar options are not possible at this time
9. I’ve used mindgasm and other tools
10. Not watching porn during sessions, etc.
Are these my only options:
1. Buy other toys (looking at progasm or eupho trident, but I’ve read other posts where buying a ton of toys may not necessarily help)
2. Just keep trying until it happens?
Admittedly i get frustrated but trying to keep an open mind and just “let it happen”. I also know there isn’t 1 golden solution that works for everyone but any additional tips?