So I got an aneros two days ago. Tried it today in the bath. Things went sorta ok. I enjoyed the sensation but the real breakthrough was about an hour later when I said "fuckit" and ignored the recommendation to not touch the aneros and just use contractions. I basically began moving it back and forth with the little curled handle, and that's when it got great. I started to get that feeling in my penis that you get either when you are right about to pee or right about to cum. However I could not get past that about to cum feeling and actually cum from the sensation. I tried speeding up the rhythm and I tried keeping it steady but nothing could get me over the edge. In the end I ended up giving up and just stroked my dick while moving the aneros and it was pretty great, but I still want to get a hands-free orgasm. Does anyone have any advice for my next attempt?