Looking to buy my first Aneros, have some questions

Would like some feedback from people that have first hand experience. Not new to p massage, but not had good experiences yet.

I want one that is comfortable to leave in while I’m doing other stuff, shopping, dinner with the wife, etc. would like a vibrating and non vibrating option. Which one would be comfortable for sitting clothed?

Sorry if this has been answered before, but looking through post history didn’t give me what I need. And price is no object.