Been fooling around with an aneros for >5 years now. Picked up an Njoy pure wand along the way. I enjoy it get pleasure, felt like I was on the edge a few times. At this point though I feel like I’ll never get there. Don’t get me wrong I think I’ll always enjoy aneros or the wand in the future, just curious if anyone persevered for a long time and eventually figured it out?
Author: curious_coitus
Ejaculation with orgasm?
I’ve been practicing with the aneros helix and separating orgasm from ejaculation. I don’t really have time to dedicate to have session, so I’m essentially edging with the helix, pretty much 15-20 minutes in the shower. I’ll start with the aneros in and relax as a wash my body, then breath and focus on PC muscles. When I have ~ 5 minutes left I’ll start to rub my dick, while focusing on breathing and sensation. It feels great and I’ll often feel like I’m close to the edge without getting fully erect. The sensations are inside of me, not necessarily in my dick. A few times I’ve stopped just short of the point of no return(PONR), I’ve then felt muscle contractions similar to an ejaculation and produced fluid similar to ejaculate. It’s felt good but nothing like an orgasm, and I can keep masturbating and quickly get to the PONR in a minute. What’s going on here?
I know general theory is no touching of the penis, but I’m experimenting owning to time constraints. Anyone have similar experiences or successes?
Separating orgasm from ejaculation
Recently I’ve been focusing more on the do nothing and meditate approach. I’m had moderate success, involuntarily contractions and twitch when lightly tending my PC muscles. During this I’m aroused, relaxed and soft. Eventually I’m out of time and/or bored and I lightly touch my dick till it’s half erect (I know, I know, don’t do it, but hey I just put 90 minutes in, I need some release). Then working my PC I can eventually orgasm and it’s usually accompanied by a HFWO. Recently I’ve been noticing that orgasm and ejaculation seem to be be slightly seperate. The most recent thins was pronounced, I felt orgasm and spasms hit for 2-3 seconds and then felt the wave of ejaculation come (pun intended). I think I read about how being multi orgasmic can arise from separating the two events, any tips on further separating them or what’s going on?
Trying something other than the VICE
Hello all,
I snagged a VICE Syn back in the day, back when I thought, “Oh I’ll pop it in, crack the vibrations, and experience bliss.” …. yeah not that easy. I’ve read that vibrations aren’t exactly the way to go starting out. I believe the quote is, “like a chainsaw, numbing everything.”
While I feel that maybe overstated, I haven’t had much success. I’d like to try something else out, mainly different material compatible with silicone lube. I’ve been eying the helix. It seems more manageable? Any thoughts?
Wet mini-O’s? Is that a thing?
I’ve been practicing on and off. I get to the point where I can feel a slight pleasurable sensation deep inside, and it makes me want to contract/thrust to keep it going. However it eventually goes away. It’ll come back but this is a cycle that feels like it could go on forever. Eventually I’ll stroke myself till I’m hard. Then just play with my balls at which point I can feel the pleasure build and build. It get’s to a plateau that’s really intense, I would say a the sensation of just before a traditional orgasm, then after 30 seconds, I orgasm and start ejaculating. This 30 seconds are bliss and torture at the same time.
I realize that prostate orgasms are usually decoupled from ejaculation. I know common thinking is keep you hands off you’re dick, and i generally follow that but after an hour-ish session it’s time to wrap this up.
I guess I’m looking for input on how to proceed. Do I keep this up keep? Try for an hour then finish essentially hands free? Is there a connection I can make between these, ejaculatory orgasms for ball stimulation to hands free prostate?
Questions on arousal and how to think during a session
So I’ve got a few questions about arousal and thought process during a session. I know the aneros does really do anything by itself, and you need to be around using it. I’m trying to determine what arousal really means. For example I can feel horny or think something is hot, but I don’t think that really elicits a physical response. If there’s porn on, it doesn’t really do anything except give me the urge to touch myself. If I’m touching myself I get a physical arousal response of an erection. The same if I’m trying to have a fantasy in my mind, it doesn’t really do much. However if I’m touching myself and fantasizing, I get a physical response and I can “engage” more with the fantasy. Should I be causing physical arousal response aka an erection before inserting? After inserting? How does arousal play into the use of aneros?
Following up on starting arousal, how should I be thinking of maintaining it throughout the session. Should I be fantasizing, listen to erotic audio with a story, try to keep my mind blank? I think some of the larger issue is I put the aneros in and have a now what response. It doesn’t feel wildly good just sitting there, practicing contraction is kind of meh, trying to just relax and feel things practically puts me to sleep. I’d like some thoughts on how to think/what to think during a session. I know everyone is different and there’s no right way, but currently using the aneros is about an hour of trying various things and then finishing myself off with my hand.
Had some success but have some questions going forward
So I’ve had a Aneros Vice for about a year now, and experimented inconsistently with it. I know regimented practice is good, but life can be hectic. Almost all of my sessions were trying for a super O, failing, and finishing myself off by hand for a more intense orgasm.
The other night I was listening to one of the hypno-aneros tracks. It was one that had me touching myself all over: nipples, dick, balls etc. Now I know that the touching the dick isn’t super helpful, in the long run, but I was in the moment. Once I realized I was touching my dick I stopped and focused on balls and nipples. However by this point I was hard. I was enjoying myself and think I was finally feeling prostate stimulation. Eventually while listen and tugging on my balls, I felt warm inside and orgasmed. However when I orgasmed I came and shot cum everywhere.
I was able to repeat this recently listening to erotic audio and after getting myself hard. Not as intense, but I came from what I perceive as pleasure from my prostate.
My questions are. When you experience a super O are you hard? Is it common for you to cum, from prostate stimulation? I have a hard time determining if I’m aroused, if I’m not hard (no pun intended). Does anyone have any thoughts on how to go forward?