Author: Doncejankiu

THCaaa…

Under normal circumstances, I build my arousal for several days, then set the mood in advance for a 3-4 hour session at the very least. I start to breathe deeply to relax, self-hypnotise to sink deeper, let go, surrender and visualise a variety of images and stories before anything starts to happen. In a few hours, I start to float and really get into the session. I have P-waves, a couple of dry orgasms and mental calm seas pleasure. I feel relieved and satisfied and then get on with my day. Every fourth session or so, I’m able to achieve a super orgasm. I then lay there out of breath and count my blessings thinking about this amazing world and the pleasure within (it only happens after the 3-4 hours of play). It’s outrageously amazing and I wish that every man had a chance to experience it, but..

With THC, it is a completely different story. Aneros just takes over my body and fucks me endlessly into oblivion in any possible position and with all possible orgasm variations you can imagine. It almost doesn’t matter what I have experienced prior, and what I normally write or say about an ordinary Aneros session. With a bit of THC, everything just becomes superbly enhanced. In fact, those sessions are so different, that I feel that it is a completely different reality or universe. Read more »

Nipple Orgasmic

Just before Christmas, I had a full body orgasm riding my partner. It never happened before or since. I felt over the moon that night. Even though he was also exhilarated with the result, he hasn’t shown much interest in fucking me regularly. He doesn’t usually like topping and I am not planning to cheat. When I top, I enjoy sex a lot but I am also a much more sexual person than he is. So I decided that I want a to explore the possibility of a receptive orgasm through intercourse using another solution. Over Christmas, I purchased a real powerful fucking machine to test my limits and find out if I could orgasm again from the stimulation alone. I couldn’t reach the same level of pleasure and felt guilty about using it, so in the end I got rid of it. But it was an experience in itself that I can share in another post.

After Christmas, my schedule really intensified. In order to maintain a clear head in this busy period, I masturbated every morning before work. It kept my fantasies and my Aneros at bay. I simply didn’t have time for it. My partner also worked short days and was mostly at home, which prevented me having a session on my days off. I was no longer travelling for work due to Covid, so couldn’t take an Aneros with me for a night away. We had sex occasionally, and it was great, but I still wanted to keep my options open on Aneros. My only option was massaging my nipples quietly in bed at night and I was getting more and more out of it. Read more »

The elusive Aless orgasm

Some say that they need the right mood, others champion spontaneity. There are some that claim to have it on demand as soon as they close their eyes. Previous prostate play experience helps a lot, as you can link back to the experience of using an Aneros or another toy. To me, I rarely do it and rarely to reach the same level of pleasure. But maybe I should invest more time into it. No prep, no clean-up.

If I am in the right state of mind, I will attempt Aless at night. My technique is to imagine that I have an Aneros inside, slowly moving and touching all the right spots. Then my session almost matches an Aneros session. Only once I have ended up with an Aless super O.

Nipples help for sure! But I don’t consider it fully Aless, more like nipple induced prostate orgasms. Just last night my partner began stimulating my nipples during sex. I became superbly excited and had a few dry Os in the process, which was amazing. Afterwards, my prostate fluttered, and I didn’t want to cum yet. I decided that I wanted to stay in the arousal mode.

Then, as he fell asleep, I slowly began Aless contractions and reached a sweaty shaking orgasm. It wasn’t very intense, but I imagined a toy going in and out, and visualised it massaging my prostate. In the process that took over an hour, I had several strange visuals that enhanced the experience. I saw a finger or a hand there, reaching in and tickling my pSpot, I imagined being fucked and stimulated. And I just wanted to surrender and submit to the experience. Read more »

New Decade

For me, after several months of dull or limiting sessions in my Aneros journey, I have almost stopped having them.

Then, I suddenly and unexpectedly reached new heights in the last seven days. It started with finding out that I may be alone for several days and nights that inspired me to prepare mentally and physically for potentially long sessions that would allow me to relax and re-discover pleasure, and continue my journey. I was getting very excited about that. Whilst that didn’t transpire, I held back and decided not to orgasm in a traditional way. What followed was completely unbelievable, phenomenal and blew my mind completely.

Day 1 – On day 1, my partner went to bed early. He didn’t know that I was holding out, so I decided to just lay next to him and slip in a generic massager that was closest to me. I didn’t experience any overwhelming sensations, but it was pleasant. This increased my arousal further and I wanted more. Read more »

Dealing with Arousal

What was your journey in learning to combine ejaculation and Aneros Use? And how do you deal with the refractory period that follows?

If I don’t ejaculate for several days, the sessions are mind-blowing, but I am so aroused I am unable to work or study. There’s nothing else I can think about, except teasing myself through nipple stimulation or having an Aneros session. I also have to think of ways to avoid ejaculating during sex.

If I ejaculate through sex with my partner or masturbation, I cannot reach the same level of satisfaction through prostate play for several days. I am either not interested or the sessions are dull.

I suppose it is a learning experience to get to a place where I can rewire and combine both, or enjoy both without affecting the other. This is just one of those things that I haven’t yet mastered.

Cheat Codes

Over time, whenever I wasn’t having a great time with my Aneros, and I was extremely aroused, I have combined my solo play with a a variety of different cheat options and enhancements. I guess it was simple curiosity, I wanted to try it all, and nothing was off the table (except cheating). Over time, I have tried various techniques and forms of edging, hypnosis, KSMO, binaural beats, kegels, Aless, various drugs and supplements, eStim, a Theragun, dildos, an nJoy wand, nipple play, sounding and even a fucking machine.

To this day I still believe that just using a single Aneros toys is the best way to spend a day or a night (or both). Nothing else is needed and it can take you very very far away into deep inexplicable pleasure.

But I could never satisfy my curiosity. I will post a review of all of these below over time, but in brief summary:

Edging – 6/10 I would still be interested to get to a ‘goon’ state or a multiorgasmic masturbation session. But this is usually contradictory to Aneros play. I have generally enjoyed my experiences with edging, especially as this is something my partner is receptive to. Those are even better. But generally I don’t have the patience to start stop enough times to get a continuous orgasm state. It would be interesting to learn this one day. Read more »

Levels

One of the times where I found myself in a floating orgasmic state I tried to put these different level orgasms (both physical and mental) into a pyramid of sorts, or a circle of pleasure (the orgasms re-circle).

Level 1: Relaxation
Level 2: Noise Elimination
Level 3: Auto Contractions
Level 4: Prostate P-Waves
Level 5: Dry-O
Level 6: Floating, Loss of Direction
Level 7: Whole Body Waves
Level 8: Mental-Orgasm
Level 9: Loss of Time and Space
Level 10: Physical Super Orgasm
Level 11: Mental Super Orgasm
Level 12: Complete Out of Body Experience

Last level for me (Level 12) is the feeing of ultimate trance, almost godlike. Close to heaven if such ever existed. Pleasure is fully in my mind, it is unbelievable, and I have no sense of physical body.

Level X: Combined Level 10 and Level 11 Super Os at the same time – this is the the most stimulating type of orgasm. It activates all physical and mental outlets. Only had it a few times. I think it requires to keep up the physical contractions whilst allowing thyself to drift into trance.

It is hard to define this well as I haven’t had a session for a while sadly. At the time of having these I came up with more complex, more beautiful definitions.

Levels 1-12 is my ultimate session, happens every 5 sessions or so. Sometimes requires help (weed). Not always. I only have a session about once a month. So it is rare. Most often I go 1-4. Sometimes 1-8. Read more »

My Only Regret

My only regret was never having a true hfwo, not from sex or from play. I guess it wasn’t meant to be, but I have surely come close a multitude of times through hypnosis, nipple play, nJoy wand, a sex machine, THC, a Theragun or sex itself! If there’s anything I haven’t tried (that doesn’t involve penis stimulation), then shout!

My big success (if you can call it that) came from squeezing my penis between my thighs so that there was very minor stimulation – this was not totally a hfwo. I used a theragun successfully and sat on it at the edge of the bed. I came, but felt overstimulated. Another time, I invested a lot into eStim equipment and finally ejaculated, but it was overwhelming. It was more shocking than pleasing.

I suppose a hwfo is not always helpful for Aneros play. Those that have it say they are tired of ending all their sessions with one, and those that don’t – always want to experience it.

A hwfo envy! But hanging off the edge is also fun. And it helps to get to the next level of pleasure.

Recap

I have been an avid user of Aneros toys and playing with my prostate for several years now. It started independently of my relationship with my partner, which runs in parallel. Our sex life is amazing and mind-blowing, if a tad ‘traditional’. We have been together since we have been very young and never looked back. We share an intimate romantic bond and have long almost tantric body-to-body sex sessions. I usually top, but we can both be versatile. I was always a more sexual person than he is and is constantly looking to enhance our experience without cheating. But he is rarely interested in anything else. I suppose I am happy with this, but always wanted to personally go beyond ‘nomal’ sex.

Even as a kid I knew something is ‘up there’ and would sometimes have dreams of some sort of anal pleasure, without understanding it. Now that I think about it, I find it almost unbelievable. I just didn’t know what to do with it. I wonder if anyone else was the same?

As a teenager, I was an eager participant in a variety of forums and keenly tried out all forms of masturbation and play before stumbling upon prostate play and the Aneros forum. But my first solo experiences were hardly a success. I tried using a pen or screwdriver handle to simulate sex. I should say that before serious prostate play, anal sex was fun but not as pleasant physically as it is now. Read more »