Patience

Your ability to withstand delayed gratification correlates well with success, it's also been seminal in our evolution and the development of the frontal cortex.
There are some people on this forum with addiction problems, be it PMO or marijuana. Both cases the outcome is inevitable a decline in sensitivity. So despite the logic being the less you do the better it is, you do more because of the instant gratification, and roll back the millions of years in evolution.

Anyway point being I like doing both, and cutting out PMO makes it easier to stick to not using mj and it shows me how easy it is to at least be able to withstand instant gratification )for PMO(in certain areas of my life that this would carry over is self control in other areas since the principal is exactly the same. If you can withstand this instant gratification and patiently wait it out not only will the rewards be greater but you will have grown in the process.

IMO it's not about excluding the 'vices' from your life, but using them to practice self control and by knowing what you're missing by foregoing you're training your patience muscle, growing your frontal cortex and you get a more intense experience with much less

Probing for ecstasy

After reading the Njoy reviews I was anxiously waiting for it to arrive, really excited about some of the claims made. When it did I quickly lubed up and tried the smaller end first, it was ok nothing special. Then I tried the bigger side. Being new to this device it took a long time to get it in, at times I was gasping from the effort and it really felt when it was nearly in that I was going to rip my asshole open with it. Then I finally got it in and I was a little disappointed. I expected everything from 10 x pleasure than with the Aneros to male squirting.
All I got from the few hours I was using it however was a need to be truly satisfied, I realised even then I was on the cusp of something but I couldn't quite get the release.
Hence I do what I always do when I want to experience a Super O or an otherwise mindblowing orgasm, I bought some mj.
First I inserted the Eupho, got some decent orgasms, but nothing really out of the ordinary in my years of Aneros use, if anything it was quite a tame session… until I brought out the Njoy box.
The second time it was easier sliding the bigger side in, the third time was even easier..I just bend over and squat down on it then it just slides in.
Anyway, before I used the mj I didn't properly understand how to use the wand, perhaps I was overthinking it or I was using it in the same way I'd use the Aneros. With mj however it's like you instinctively know how to use it to get best results, namely as a probe. Yes I'd read that's how it was categorized but I hadn't realized how apt that description was. Also some of the reviewers were saying how heavy it was, which to me showed the didn't know how to use it, a red herring when I first started using it, but things became completely clear with mj. It's not heavy, it's a probe that you guide thru your anal channel using your fingers while the ball on the outside stimulates the outer perineum. So unlike the Aneros your manually guiding it to all the pleasure points along your anal cavity and then, like with the Aneros, you hold it on a pleasure spot and intensify it by stimulating it. And while your doing this you can use the outside ball to stimulate your outerprostate, i.e. perineum
IMO this very simple design, that could have easily been around in Egyptian/Roman times is the future of anal/prostate/g-spot stimulation. No problems with it being the wrong size or the p-tab sore on sweet spot etc. There's nothing high tec about it but it more possibilities than you can imagine
I don't think I could use it as often as the Aneros though, it really takes a lot out of you and it's really going to make you scream with pleasure