Looking for advice – close but never get there.

Hey all,

I’ve been using my aneros toy for about 7 months now. For the most part, it feels amazing, and I really enjoy using it. Unfortunately, I always seem to hit a roadblock and never actually orgasm.

Basically I can feel all the sensations building up and it feels like I’m going to have one, but then my body just tenses up completely, involuntaries stop, and then the feeling just fades away. I’m not sure how I can get around that or how to control this. Any advice would be appreciated!